HELP! I am really really sad.?!
Question: Please help! My grandmother died 3 weeks ago because she was really sick and we didn't make it to the hospital on time.I don't have a mom.My mom died 4 years ago,when I was 9.I only have a dad ( who works in Pakistane) and a grandfather(who's heart is cold as ice) and my aunt(who is really stressed and smoks all the time) I feel like i am in a prison and I want to die to relax!! I am freaking out...please help!God bless you all...
Answers: Please help! My grandmother died 3 weeks ago because she was really sick and we didn't make it to the hospital on time.I don't have a mom.My mom died 4 years ago,when I was 9.I only have a dad ( who works in Pakistane) and a grandfather(who's heart is cold as ice) and my aunt(who is really stressed and smoks all the time) I feel like i am in a prison and I want to die to relax!! I am freaking out...please help!God bless you all...
Know that we all unfortunately have to leave this earth one day.....the bible does speak of this reality. It's o.k. to miss your loved one...but remember your grandmother left you with her sweet ways, and your aunt, and grandfather( who may be sad at your grandmother being called to her heavenly home)need to experience her life through you....don't be sad to that point that your family doesn't get the opportunity to see how beneficial you are to their lives....some people are better taught by example....and I believe that God is going to use you to lead by that example of His love.....I'll pray for your gift and your family as well....You are a very sweet, caring and blessed your person....Be blessed sweetheart.
You ask and he will provide the confort you need, put it in his hands and let him do the work, GOD is alway there u just dont lesten to him all the time. They love you they are people to, just remember that all peoples biggiest fear is (getting rejected. )
if you feel that you are pressed by everyone, try talking to your father. Talk open. Tell him all of your problams. Tell that you are living in a prison and tell him that you want to have a change.
oh....................god , i'm very sorry 4 ur present situation.
but friends u come to earth, so it is sure u will die.
but don't feel like this.because no body will speek what will happen in future.(dilip_pintu@hotmail.com)
Really? If your mom is dead then how come in one of your previous questions you were asking about something about telling your mother that you were gay?
Well you're pretty young and going through a hard time. I am sorry that you're feeling so terrible. You can work through it! Is there a teacher at school you feel comfortable enough talking to about your situation? Or a counselor? Could you join after school activities to make friends and keep yourself busy? It sounds like interaction with others would really benefit you since you're not getting the attention you need at home. Make sure you allow your self time to grieve. Losing someone is an extremely hard thing and it's not going to go away right away. It takes time to heal so keep that in mind. I think finding a mentor would be an excellent thing for you. You're also old enough for big brother/ big sister, which is where an adult will come hang out with you once a week or month. I would really look into that. It could give you the warmth, attention, and love that you seek and deserve! Here is the website: http://www.bbbs.org/site/c.diJKKYPLJvH/b...
Stay strong and positive!!
God will help you thru this hard time if you ask Him to. Take it a day at a time, & mourn your grandmother properly. Speak to your school counselor about what is happening & how you are feeling. She/he can guide you. you have my prayers..
T'inquiete pas je suis avec toi
I am with you
Don't worry friend
Don't you have a uncle or an auntie to talk. Talk openly. Let everything out at once.