How do you deal with emotionally abusive people ?!
Question: i am soooo pissed at this man, he is degrading, hurting, minipulating and threatening us through text message.
he is such a horrible person, i think hes worst then the devil himself.
how do i get over this anger i feel, i am soo angry i cant stand it!- the nerve of this man! the nerve!!!
Answers: i am soooo pissed at this man, he is degrading, hurting, minipulating and threatening us through text message.
he is such a horrible person, i think hes worst then the devil himself.
how do i get over this anger i feel, i am soo angry i cant stand it!- the nerve of this man! the nerve!!!
go about your life aithout him and get his number blocked from your phone. hey dont worry karma will get him soon. i promise
tell him never to contact you anymore and put him on ignore, if he continues to contact you file a restraining order or call the police
This sounds like my best friend's daughter. She seems to get her jollies by dumping all over her mother and verbally and emotionally (I'm hoping not physically too,) abusing her mother. She tried being abusive with me, and I shot her down in flames by giving the crap right back to her, so now she doesn't mess with me. I swear SHE is the Devil, I've never met such a miserable grown woman in my entire life. What is the worst of it is that her family is all deathly afraid of her big mouth and let her do and say whatever she wants to....it's sickening.
Best thing for you to do if someone is texting you (I don't know of any way to block a text,) is to change your cel number. That will drive him nuts....and don't let him know he's bothering you now or that you're scared of him...that only makes it worse. Good Luck!!
Sounds like someone I know! Change your phone because one day he will upset you so much that you can harm yourself. I know how hard it is, you just want to hurt or kill him right? lol. Talk to somebody you trust like your mom or your best friend and maybe they can help you. It takes months, and maybe even years to get over anger, so it won't be easy. Hope that man gets a life! Good Luck!:)
I would file a police report about the threatening messages. Nothing much will probably happen but now you have made a record of what is going on just for future reference.
After the police have copies of the messages, CHANGE YOUR CELLPHONE NUMBER! Change ALL of your numbers and report any future threatening contact.
i know exactly what you are talking about. i have been through this with my ex-husband so many times. most people will say "ignore it", but how can you? you can only take so much before you explode!! what gives anybody the right to be doing this, anyway?! i came to realize that this type of people live a miserable life and they are just trying to drag you along with them. cancel your text message service, that is what i did. it will take some fun out of communicating with friends but believe me, it is worth it. save the messages too, you never know what might happen. if anything does happen, you got proof he has been harassing you. good luck.
There is NOTHING as harmful and horrible as emotional abuse.
You have a right to be angry, but you have to get over it, or he wins.
Walk away.
No, on second thought, RUN.
You cannot do anything about him except get away from him as fast as you can.
If he does not stop the harassment, call the police. Notify them, in any case,
You may not be able to get a restraining order, but you can notify them anyway.
Call your cell phone company. They will not allow his messages.
Most of all. know that there are people in this world that barely qualify as people.
They are innately cruel and have no conscience.
It's a hard concept to grasp for someone to whom that behavior is just plain alien...but it's true.
Be glad you are not like him.
Be very glad.
Feel sorry for him.
Think of people like that as rabid dogs.
You can feed them if you feel sorry for them, but NEVER let them in the house.
Tell him to leave you alone and if he doesn't, get a restraining order. Get another phone number that is unlisted. Be careful who you give it to.
His objective is to degrqade and piss you off. I know it's hard, but you have to let it roll off your back. What he says is words, and words are cheap. Let it roll off. His words do not defind who you are, nor youR family. There are stupid people everywhere.
Don't take that abuse, get a restraining order against this guy, because if he contact you in any fashion he could be arrested. Threatening is a serious offense and plus could lead him to do harm to you.