Why can't I cry? Any ideas to help me cry?!
Question: I was in a abusive relationship and when I would cry the guy would yell at me. So now I don't cry I havens cried in at least 8 months. I want to cry at times and nothing happens! I've tried sad songs write letters but nothing.
Answers: I was in a abusive relationship and when I would cry the guy would yell at me. So now I don't cry I havens cried in at least 8 months. I want to cry at times and nothing happens! I've tried sad songs write letters but nothing.
maybe deep inside you don't want to show fear and weakness, because you need to be strong to defend yourself from anything and anyone.
use onion? heheh
you think of the old relationship with the guy. or you could yawn a lot, and your eyes tear up? i just think of something really sad, like, if my dog died.
Watch Forrest Gump!! made me ball like a baby..!! ---if u cant find it go to sidereel.com
Just be happy!...think positive
Oh, well; I think that you may want to contact your doctor !
Maybe, that will help !
I guess their are special pills or something they can do about it !
Watch the film The Holiday Cameron Diaz had the same problem as you, then watch a particularly sad film - I cry EVERY time at the end of Billy Elliott (daft isn't it). Cameron Diaz learns to cry when love overcomes her, by the way. Hope I haven't spoiled the film for anyone!
i think that that guy made u so sad that it kinda got the crying thing away from u
maybe if u talked to someone about wats going on in ur life and stuff that mught b able to help u out
wadda u know life is full of surprises
god bless u i hope u get to cry soon :)
i agree to that other guy just be happy
I can tell you from my own experience of being in an abusive relationship (being the abused), that the person who is in the relationship cannot see. I knew something wasn't "right" about the relationship, and I was told time and time again by my abusive ex-husband that if I changed things would get better. But they didn't. My friends and family kept telling me that I was in a "horrible" relationship, but being full of low self esteem and believing his lies, I stood up for him...telling my family and friends you don't know the side of him I do. Problem is...his charming side was part of the abusive cycle.
Go to different websites about abuse, counselors and ask for information...give it to your friend...and pray they will open up and receive help to get out. It takes A LOT of support from family and friends to stay out for good! It sounds like you have suppressed alot of those feelings...Remember, the victim took some time to be brainwashed by the abuser and to undo it will also take time and the patience of a saint.This is the method I used to rescue myself.It's not easy as it nearly broke me as well as my two children. Please seek professional help....Good Luck....XOXOX
See these:
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abusef...
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq66....
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq42....
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/trauma...
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/tortur...
Try loosening/massaging your tear ducts. Or maybe try watching something that is so funny you can't stop laughing. That usually makes my eyes water when I laugh insanely hard. Even happy things can make you cry. :)
sock yourself in the face
fall down on a rock and if it hurts, then make it still hurt like scratching it and doing the same thing until you cry.