Why don't i feel love towards my family, i feel no connection what so ever?!
Question: There could be many reasons. There could have been no bonding when you were born. This happens with some children that have severe medical issues when first born and they never bonded with the mother. It could be of other family issues ie: Abuse or trauma at an early age of like some families members never get close to one another. Have you talked this over with a health care professional or Therapist? Thats what I'd suggest.
Answers: There could be many reasons. There could have been no bonding when you were born. This happens with some children that have severe medical issues when first born and they never bonded with the mother. It could be of other family issues ie: Abuse or trauma at an early age of like some families members never get close to one another. Have you talked this over with a health care professional or Therapist? Thats what I'd suggest.
Love begins at a very early age...bonding, and if you don't get it, or never feel that from them...you can't feel it for them either..I am so sad, that this is the case...They are your family, and don't feel bad about not bonding with them though..this is their fault, and I hope and pray, that you can forgive them and become a loving, kind person, that cares about others, in spite of their coldness...God bless, forgive them, and take care
maybe you're at a particular age
some young ones are particularly egocentric
that is can't see past themselves or friends
and are contemptible of parents and such
some young people are rebelling against
their parents and other authority figures
and suppress love for family
it will pass thankfully
and you'll feel ashamed
Probably because of an acute inferiority complex.
When some adolescents, at an early age, are given a lot of material things by their parents they can find it difficult to accept any type of discipline or restraint as they grow older.
This can result in several self esteem issues and manifest itself into varying degrees of image transferral to other members of your family.
In truth, it is actually YOU that you don't love very much.
Your family is how you are transferring it.
Your statement would probably be better if written as:
"why don't i feel love towards myself, i feel no connection what so ever"?
Two things I hope you will think about before your anxiety requires professional help.
Discipline.
Self improvement.
The solution requires a greater explanation than can be done here but, trust me, these two things will help but only if you want them to and are willing to work at them.
I really feel very sad for you . And I also think the way people tend to blame theyr family for whatever goes wrong in their lives pathetict, whatever we do when we are grown up is up to us. I think it's about time to grow up and take the consecuences of what we do! and stop blaming our parents! for God sakes! If I did not have a family I don't know where I would be co's whithout them I would be lost and that my friend is true.