Is it normal to never want to give up?!
Question: Yesterday, i got in the biggest brawl i could have ever been in...
i ache all over...
but when i was on the ground i almost passed out...
but yet...i got back out stumbbling and nearly tried to kill the person who i was fightin with...they said somethin bout my best friend james...and i hit the girl wit all i had...she was on the ground and she was knocked out...the person who was wit me said lets go...and i ran home,....but yet...i didnt want to give up....i nearly was the one that got jumped....but just that one thought of getting jumped....and her saying something aboout my best friend who is practically my brother...
i kinda dont learn from my falls....
i always try thingsl...new things or old.....
i like getting hurt...because in a way..i feel as if it makes me stronger...
my friends think im off my rocker....
Answers: Yesterday, i got in the biggest brawl i could have ever been in...
i ache all over...
but when i was on the ground i almost passed out...
but yet...i got back out stumbbling and nearly tried to kill the person who i was fightin with...they said somethin bout my best friend james...and i hit the girl wit all i had...she was on the ground and she was knocked out...the person who was wit me said lets go...and i ran home,....but yet...i didnt want to give up....i nearly was the one that got jumped....but just that one thought of getting jumped....and her saying something aboout my best friend who is practically my brother...
i kinda dont learn from my falls....
i always try thingsl...new things or old.....
i like getting hurt...because in a way..i feel as if it makes me stronger...
my friends think im off my rocker....
Yes it is. Its called determination.
A new study turns out that FIGHTING is simliar to SEX in how its interpreted in the brain.
personally, i think love is way better than fighting, but i recognize that sometimes as an honerable person im obligated to stand up for something that is right.
Furthermore, the adrenaline that pumps through your head while your fighting gets you "high", it makes it difficult to give up in a fight sometimes because your so focused on that fight and the adrenaline is pumping.... All logic seems to fade away.
anyways, sounds like a bunch of high school teenage drama stuff...
I suggest you get over it now while your young, b/c when you get older it will only land you in jail... and youll be whats considered in the bottom of the social pyramid.
Sorry for the tough love.
Sincerely,
male cardiac nurse
Violence is never a solution to problems and disagreements. People resort to violence when they reach the limit of their intelligence. Your reasoning is very flawed.
Its your personality.
You have one of those personalities who are always striving for more.
they want controll; a sense of comfort knowing that they've won
or they've accomplished/finished something.
Im guessing you don't like to leave things unfinished!?!
I understand;;theres nothing wrong with that!
Good luck;;i hope i helped!
haha, well there are two parts to this question
first of all, in a fight or intense situation, your adrenaline is pumping alot so you toss caution to the wind at go full steam ahead and never look back. that is human nature.
secondly, it is also human nature to want to be the top dog. compitition is everything and the mind acts on its intincts of survival and such when it is physically challenged.
so, yes it is normal to be like this, but the level of fervor you display can be differnent than mine due to how you have grown up and other factors.
but then again, there are people who just love kicking the shi* outta other people for fun!!!
You need serious anger management.Did it really make you feel great to punch out a girl?
l think you are in a L O T of trouble and heading fast for some place you don't want to be in, like jail.
l'm not kidding.
If this story is for real you need H E L P and fast. l think you should find an adult you feel you can trust, any adult with some sense, and tell them what's going on.
What you said, about liking to get hurt, that's a red flag.
You are soooo angry inside you can't control it. When you really lose it, and you will, you'll be in a situation so BAD you can't even imagine.
And you know what will happen? The more they hurt you, and they will, your body, your pride, your manhood, the more you are going to say "Bring it on... l can take anything you can dish out and then some!" And they will. And in the end you will lose your life, either through murder or through having to be locked up for years and years.
NOW is the time you might just, maybe, if you can get scared enough to do something about it, be able to avoid it, if you really want to live a decent life, which l can bet is not happening now.
You're old enough to know there is no Tooth Fairy, no Santa...
YOU, my friend, are the only one who can take care of yourself, nobody else can do it for you because it's nobody else's life we're talking about, just your own. But NOBODY can do it alone. You need an adult friend to lead the way, and you need to learn to obey somebody who knows more than you do.
If you don't know where to find help post again. Lots of people care about you, who don't even know you, like me.
Ask. Listen. Do What You're Told. And do it day-before-yesterday. THIS IS AN EMERGENCY!!!.
I think you need to grow up, then you will think in a different way.....as far your question goes my answer is you are in a stage where adolesence changes are because your hormones are undergoing good change, and your body needs more oxygen to burn the lactic acid fat, to pump your adrenaline glands.
Your confidence and determination could be used in a much more constructive way, and let me assure you you will not be the person you are now after 10 years from now.
So go get a life, because girls are not for knocking out on the ground, and then deriving pleasures, You need to learn the art of friendship and companionship too. OK