Do you think everything realy happens for a reason?(:?!


Question: I always have that thought of thinking of really complicated things in my life.I'm barely starting out of adult life,but always think of my life.The past and the coming future.Do you really think that evrything happens for a reason?Bad or good.t happend for a cause.Do you also belive that dreams always carries messages.That it trying to tell you something?Do you think life is a big message waiting to be open,read,and encountered?


Answers: I always have that thought of thinking of really complicated things in my life.I'm barely starting out of adult life,but always think of my life.The past and the coming future.Do you really think that evrything happens for a reason?Bad or good.t happend for a cause.Do you also belive that dreams always carries messages.That it trying to tell you something?Do you think life is a big message waiting to be open,read,and encountered?

in a way, even if you have bad experiences you learn something, most of our lessons come out of bad experiences and we always learn. i am the same i cant stop thinking about what is going to happen and i get so scared and then i think about all the things i have done and all of my regrets and i get angry at myself, but in all the situatuions that have really hurt me, or that i thought were so bad and things went wrong, well if some of them things hadnt happened i wouldnt have changed my life, i went through a bad stage where i had a cheating abusive boyfriend, i was severlly depressed and cutting myself all of the time and literally bashing myself everyday thinking i was nothing, then he LEFT me and i couldnt handle it i tried to end my life and things were so bad, then the place i was working at shut down and i didnt have him anymore so i left, moved to a different state to start over, i enrolled in tafe and did a course i just tried again and didnt even think about guys for months, then i got work and got out of my "black clothes" stage and tried to be happy, then i met my new boyfriend who is completely opposite to who ive been with, he is amazing and has turned out to be my oxygen, we have been together over a year now and we are good, i now have started towards my career and could never think of hurting myself because i have my boy to help me, i am still depressed but i see a doctor everymonth and am on meds, i fell that if all that hadnt have gone wrong i would still be with that other guy getting hurt everyday in that same hurtful lifestyle, now i have a life, a partner and on some days i am content, life is still hard but i try my hardest to improve. therefor YES i think things happen for a reason, even if they are really bad you can always make something good out of it if you try hard enough, even though it might take a while. try be optimistic i know its hard, even for me but i feel if we try hard enough our lives can be good (somewhat) i think dreams carry messages and show us our fears so we realise, i dont think our life is written in stone but we can always learn from our mistakes.

Life is what you make it.

Yes, even the most horrific and undeserving circumstances teach you something... that's something I've come to accept. Dreams are really important, but I don't think every dream needs to be picked apart and analyzed. Most of the time when I take a dream I've had to therapy and we break it down it's just restating something I already knew, like a problem I'm going through etc - so I don't think dreams to be like visions.

That's a tough question. I like to think that everything really happens for a reason, but I don't understand why 1/2 the things that happen, happen. If that makes sense.

Dreams are just unfinished thoughts or problems that you put together while you're sleeping.

No, not anymore

I think this question can be answered only though opinion - there is no 'real' asnwer.

However,

I'm a Christian and therefore my belief (and what i'm certain is the truth) is that i'm certain everything happens for a reason, because God allows the good and the bad to happen in our life.

I know this is my belief, and sure, that's probably not perspective you were asking for.

but yes, i believe everything does happen in your life with a reason, regardless if it is good or bad. I'm not sure about the dream thing, however. In a sense i think yes, but it's not something you shpuld continuously think and worry about.

To be honest, you should go out and pull at life by the ears instead or worrying and asking yourself these questions:

Go out there and find the answer for yourself.

hope this helps, and goodluck.





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