I want to feel more confident in the things I do, has anyone got any suggestions!
Question: sometimes they say that acting confident can lead to natural confidence, instead of worrying when you are in a situation maybe it is time for you to embrace the situation you will come across more natural and confident and will enjoy it more which in turn will allow you to build your self esteem and confidence.
Answers: sometimes they say that acting confident can lead to natural confidence, instead of worrying when you are in a situation maybe it is time for you to embrace the situation you will come across more natural and confident and will enjoy it more which in turn will allow you to build your self esteem and confidence.
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try to accomplish small things.
if it works, then medium things
if not, just stay in bed
Never worry about what other people think! Be yourself do it your way!!
remove ur negative thoughts and move on.be faithful to urself.then automatically u will b confident
Always reflect back on your past successes. That will give you the extra push you need.
Make a list of all the good points about yourself & maybe get your friends to add to the list. Read this list everytime you feel low & you'll have confidence in no time!
? Kimmiii
Wear something sexy weather its underwear, sexy top, sexy bottom & have ur hair looking sexy try posing as your favorite model in front of your miror (may require practice), then go out with your friends & dance the night away & just dance with whoever.........Its a lot of fun & will help you gain confidence & make new friends!
Be prepared if at all possible. Read up or study what you are going to do. If just in general - the more you force yourself out of your comfort zone, the more confidence you will have. You will be able to say - hey I did that and I did okay. Even grab opportunities at little things that might just seem a little bit uncomfortable but not overwhelming. It will give you practice at facing those uncomfortable butterflies gradually.
When building confidence one of the important things to remember is that no one is perfect. We all mistakes, often quite a bit, but you learn from them and you move on. When you do something right you gain a sense of confidence from it, but don't let it fade. Remember that moment when you did something right and gain confidence from knowing that you are not always wrong.
A lot of people fall into the rut of failures and subconsciously continue to stay there because they don't focus on the good things they've done. It is your life and you are in control, your decisions are for you and no one else. That should make all the difference in the world to how you feel about decisions. Don't be wishy-washy, don't doubt yourself, and know that no matter what happens you can overcome adversity and make it better.
Just remember that no one can tell you how confident you are. Confidence is something within yourself. If you want to be confident, be confident. Don't worry about the outcome, just deal with the present.
Confidence is having the faith you're doing the right thing.
You do it despite what other people are doing or what other peole thinks. It involves you standing out and becoming the alpha male/female.
It involves you being an introvert at times. Get focused, stay focused on your target and do what you think is right.
Be assertive in your decision, which often means sticking with it. If it helps, make sure you feel like it's the right decision despite what other people tell you.
Stay detached from the outcome. Worry about the present and not is going to happen afterwards.
Deep slow breathing
Smile - it works
If you're confident about your decision, people will respect you for it (even if they don't say so or start arguing with you).
If your fear is not based on safty or legality.. if it's safe and it's legal.. and there is no "real" reason to be afraid other than risk of failure.
Face your fears. Challenge yourself.
each time you defeat a fear you become a little stronger. It takes some practice.. but practice makes perfect.
there will be a few mistakes .. but those are good too.. if you learn from them.. and learn to know what works and what dosnt.
good luck
well honey just do whats right for you and know you are doing the best you can ! nobody is perfect , but dont be afraid to be wrong thats how you learn and grow !
Please take assertive lessons.