Everytime i talk to a guy?!
Question: Ok so this causes me not to have any relationships:
every time a guy likes me and tries to talk to me i freeze and can only talk in short sentences and can't look at them
its happened alot and the guy's think i don't like them
but it's really that i think they don't like me
so i push them away subconsciously
Answers: Ok so this causes me not to have any relationships:
every time a guy likes me and tries to talk to me i freeze and can only talk in short sentences and can't look at them
its happened alot and the guy's think i don't like them
but it's really that i think they don't like me
so i push them away subconsciously
I have been the same way with guys. Your just shy around them. For me it helped to tell them why I acted the way I did around them. Sometimes if you let them know they can work with it. Sometimes you have to just try to be yourself even if you get turned down because something better will notice you. Just be patient. It worked for me I am a shy girl around the opposite sex, this guy a year and a half ago liked me and wanted to talk to me. I acted funny when he was around him, once I told him why he worked with me, and I let the real me show. We a still together today and happy.
Nothing bad will happen to you when you talk to people, even if they don't like what you have to say don't let that hurt your feelings because not everyone is going to like you.
maybe the setting where you meet these guys is wrong for you, I know when I am somewhere that I am comfortable I can talk to people better. Think about what you like and why, your favorite things to do, the kind of people you hang out with or would like to. Think about what you like and why, places you have been and would like to go, plus the biggest thing for me, what you imagine in fantasy and for reality. Those are always good things to talk about. Just take it a step at a time.
Nah, I do this too. As an adult I should better able to handle these types of social interactions. But hey, at least anime never turns us away, or video games. You will be okay. You just need more self-confidence. In time, they will seek you out and stumble on their words.
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I do something similar but im a guy, and it happens when i talk to an attractive girl. I think I just dont want to say anyhting stupid ..i dunno, not sure.