I can't take it anymore..?!


Question: Don't tell me to not dwell on it, 'cause that, I can't change. Have you ever seen the Dark Crystal thing, where there's tons of different speicies of human. Well, I feel like I'm drifting apart fronm everyone. I can't stand that everyone hurts and teases each other. I can't stand that the future generations are absorbed in technology. And most of all, I can't stand what humankind I've known's becoming! I feel horrible too, like no one even understands me, or even cares, not even my family. It's so bad, I'm even considering suicide. I don't want to die, but I also don't want to feel this emotional pain over and over. I'm so scared of what's going on in my head! What should I do??!!!!!


Answers: Don't tell me to not dwell on it, 'cause that, I can't change. Have you ever seen the Dark Crystal thing, where there's tons of different speicies of human. Well, I feel like I'm drifting apart fronm everyone. I can't stand that everyone hurts and teases each other. I can't stand that the future generations are absorbed in technology. And most of all, I can't stand what humankind I've known's becoming! I feel horrible too, like no one even understands me, or even cares, not even my family. It's so bad, I'm even considering suicide. I don't want to die, but I also don't want to feel this emotional pain over and over. I'm so scared of what's going on in my head! What should I do??!!!!!

I was just like you. I didn't have any clue what to do. Then i was curious about the "end times". I wanted to know about this revelation part of the bible. Mind you, i wasn't the biggest Christian but when i read about that part of the bible my eyes woke up. I was at peace knowing that i wsn't alone. Please know you are beautiful. God loves you and wants you to live life. The devil is hiding wanting to mess with you. Wanting to win you over. Please at the very least, will you research what i am saying? God bless.

see a mental doctor. i'm not saying you're crazy, but a little help from a professional sounds like a good idea. they'll be able to see what the real problem is and help you cope with it all.

best of luck to you.

It sounds like you need to get some professional help. A therapist can help you with your thoughts or least help you control them. If you are suicidal go see a doctor or to an er. You may need medication. I've had similar thoughts and they can get better. Good luck.

if you are able to do it, call a therapist now. call the county mental/behavoral health center... call your primary care doc if you have too....

these kind of thoughts can overcome you and make you go down roads you don't want to go.
you'll wake up in ten years and wonder what the hell happened. loosing years to depression sucks. believe me.

talk therapy, cognative/behavorial therapy, medicine therapy... something should be done.

becoming overwhelmed by racing thoughts can be debilitating. get some help before it really incapacitates you.

and don't listen to the jerks on here who are making jokes out if it.

you need some help there. go see a doctor and talk to your doctor about your problems.

Make a song out of the text you just wrote.

You have two different issues, dear. First, you are not the only one who feels about the world and where it's going as you do. There are others who are worried as well (I'm one of them). Your real problem is how to deal with the pain. If it is so bad you are considering suicide, I would really suggest you see a therapist. This is not to change how you feel, just help you deal with your feelings in a way that helps rather than harms your life, because there is so much you still can do to try to make the future better.

Look to God, he hear's your cry. Hang in there it is only a season and will get better. I recommend going to a church and talk to a pastor.

First thing you need to do is go talk to your family Dr. if you don't want to go to him go to another DR. you can tell him your concerns and he will help you take the next steps in seeing a specialist or medication. or what ever. after that hopefully you will see that all people are not the same. I don't know how old you are. But I really hope you help yourself to be happy... suicide is never the answer. you always mean more to people then you realize. good luck.......

First of all let me tell you that what you are experiencing is more than likely what the majority f the population are thinking, however, as for the suicidal thoughts i certainly will advise you now not to go down that road, i know because i have and because of that i ended up in a psychiatric hospital and over 17 hours in a police cell under a section of the mental health act of 1983.
You are not responsible for how other people rest one an other but as long as you respect yourself and others then at least you know you are one person at least who won't fall into any trouble, if it helps, write it out in a diary and talk to your GP and see if he/she can help you, they can give you a better picture of what you are going through and can advise you better on what to do.

Good luck honey and i hope this helps you.

People do care. They may not seem like they do but they do (they may even try to hide it). They may not understand you because your not making yourself clear enough or they don't want to make the effort to get to know you.
For humankind. Their are people out their who do horrific things to other people and they may even outnumber the good people, but thats not a reason to give up hope. Hope for humanity. Any one of us can fight for a good cause. It just takes some faith and action on our part.
And if you remember nothing from this but these last lines. Remember this, All your problems are fixable you may not realize it and may never see the solution. Talking to other people can solve this. Even if they don't have the answers they want to.
You just need a little support :)
-mp *hug* (I don't know you, where you live, who you are, or why your hurting, but I care.)

Seems like you are under depression. There are two options. First, I would suggest to get SOME help. If you cannot rely on ur friends and family, go to get some professional help or even (if you are Christian) to your pastor at church. This may sound very religious, but talking to a pastor really helps.

Think about it this way. You are NOT alone. I've entered that phase before, and I can kind-of understand your pain. But sometimes, you need to focus on the positive aspect of your life. Imagine things like marrying to a wonderful spouse or whatever that just lightens your day. These things can take a very long time to recover. I would personally take it step by step. Notice what IS good instead of what isn't.

And for family, talk to them. Sometimes, parents don't understand what you are going through because they don't know. There are gaps between parents and children, and sometimes they just do not know what you are going through. Don't lose your temper and yell at them. Instead, be serious and say something along the lines of "Hi, I really want to talk to you guys. And I would really appreciate it if you listen because this is very important to me." Then talk about what you feel. Break down if you have to, you have NO clue HOW much better it feels after telling someone close to you.

This is a very long and hard step. Do NOT commit suicide. I've thought of those before, and when I look back, it freaked me out. The thought of possibly taking my own life and missing all the possible experience I am having and that I will have is very depressing. Instead, just slowly recover. Talk to me if you have to. The first step is opening to others. We live in a world together for a reason, so that we may depend on others when we need it. And for now, I think you need to depend on them...=D SMILE! (Again, talk to me if you need to, I'll listen)

Tell your parents (or your teacher, your school counselor, your pastor, whoever...) that YOU NEED COUNSELLING. Talk to your family doctor. It is possible that you also need to see a psychiatrist and get on some medication.

You are extremely critical of pretty much every other person on this planet. This is a very vain and selfish attitude, suggesting that you consider yourself better than everyone else. Counselling can help you to look inside yourself to learn why you are so contemptuous of everyone around you.

You say that your family doesn't understand you or care about you. But you also admit that YOU are drifting apart from them (rather than that they are drifting apart from you). I strongly suspect that your family does understand you better than you give them credit for you, and they do love you, but you are creating such distance between yourself and your family that they have a hard time getting that message through to you.

You want people to be different than what they are. You want to change them. You want them to understand you and care about you. In other words, you want to CONTROL them.

In truth, most of the people around you love one another and are perfectly happy. They love you, too, even if you don't let them close enough to show you. It is you who are withdrawing from the people who love you, and it is you who criticizes the people around you, instead of understanding and caring for them.

You need an attitude adjustment.

The only thing that you have control over, the only thing that you can change, is yourself. You need to care about other people, instead of withdrawing from them. You need to make the effort to understand other people, instead of complaining that they don't understand you. Rather than assuming that their way is wrong, which is exactly what you are doing, you should try to learn why their way is right. For instance, you are using technology to ask your question, then you scorned technology in your question. Perhaps you feel that technology is only bad when other people use it.

So, what are you doing to change yourself? Get some counselling. Tell you family doctor how you feel, and see if there is some medication that could help you get your brain chemicals in balance. You are half blind at the moment, only seeing what is bad in the world, and unable to perceive what is good in it. Everyone else can see just fine. It is you who is having a vision problem.

The way to conquer what is bad in the world it through one good act at a time. Not acts that other people do. Acts that YOU do. You can start at home, by doing thoughtful caring things for your own family members, to show them how you care, and by listening to them and noticing what is going on in their lives, so that you can understand what they are going through. One of the best ways to bring light into your life is to turn your focus outward. It is a wonderful feeling to help another person. Join an organization that is committed to helping others. Visit an assisted living home. Volunteer at your local animal shelter. Offer some free tutoring at the public school. Raise some money and donate it to charity. Then, when you look out into the world for people who care and understand, you need look no farther than yourself and at the people around you who are doing the same thing that you are doing to help others.

Good luck. I hope that you start feeling better.

I come from a broken home and have gone through a lot of difficulties. I know the despair that you feel. And that's why I have to share with you the thing that changed my life.

It starts with an understanding that the pain that you feel... the pain that people cause each other... that's because of sin. Sin involves self-centeredness and leads to all the evils in the world. We sin when we choose to do things our own way instead of God's way. Sin is why the world is messed up.

Truth is, all of us are sinners... and the consequence of sin is death . But did you know that God hasn't given up on us? He created you and has a purpose for your life. You are very special to him. He loved you so much that he gave his life for you. The crazy thing is that he defeated death and resurrected. That's why we celebrate Easter - because we can have a new life through Jesus. All you have to do is trust Jesus to save you and ask him to be in charge of your life from now on. When you ask him to come into your life, he will heal you and make you complete.

That's what I've experienced in my life. I'd love to chat with you some more if you want :-)

thats how i feel girl im sick of it i need help i dont feel like anyone notices what is going on but now i know there is u 2
if u need helpp email me ok

you kneed dr phil

You need Dr. Phil





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