Out of control?!
Question: I have a health problem and because of it, my work and my financial situation are spiraling out of control. I don't even know what exact health problem is, and my doctor can't do anything about it.
I have taken about 3 months off to try to recover from my bad health- because of that I have lost my job.
How can I find any positivity in this situation? I try to be positive- but it feels impossible.
What should I do?
(Serious answers only, please)!
Answers: I have a health problem and because of it, my work and my financial situation are spiraling out of control. I don't even know what exact health problem is, and my doctor can't do anything about it.
I have taken about 3 months off to try to recover from my bad health- because of that I have lost my job.
How can I find any positivity in this situation? I try to be positive- but it feels impossible.
What should I do?
(Serious answers only, please)!
not sure what is going on... but have you tried journalling?
keeping track of what you eat, what you do, where you go, etc... maybe you are having allergies.
also, it will help you track your symptoms to be able to better talk to your doctor.
finding positivness.... maybe this is your body's way of getting you to slow down? is there a possiblity it is connected with stress? if so... then maybe taking three months to work it out will really help.
take stock of your life in lots of ways, every day try to come up with a few things you are grateful for...
someone once told me to inventory myself on a physical, spiritual, emotional and financial planes, to see where i need to spend more time getting it in shape....
i wish you fredom from your illnesses...
good luck
Find a new doctor. Or maybe a psychologist. You need to keep on trying until you find an answer. Don't let your life go down the drain. Find an answer for you!!!
see if u can get onto the out of work benefit or disability benefit. maybe see another doctor to see if they can shed some light on your illness and get u the right treatment. look into working from home or something to get a few dollars or sell stuff on ebay for some quick cash
-Your still alive (You are)
-Your not on the street
-You have the means of getting a new job (Comp / Internet)
-You may be sick but that does Not make you useless
-These aren't All the Positives :)
You need to call a psychiatrist right away. To me (I am bipolar) it sounds like you are in a deep depression. Do not let this thing take you over. Remember that you are the only one who can decide to change your life and seek treatment. You don't say what your health condition is but I can read between the lines and I can sympathize because I have taken 6 month off of work under a doctor's care for anxiety and depression. I had pain in every bone in my body and I would hide in my house for weeks at a time with the blinds closed because I had such anxiety. Please find a new doctor or go to a clinic ASAP.