Why is it that when people treat me mean, I feel like it's MY fault even tho!
Question: My neighbor was very nice to me when I 1st met her. Now she treats me like a maggot-faced alien, & I asked her what I did for her to feel like I alienated her from me, & then she made an excuse to walk away from me by lying & said she had to go to work, & then I saw her having a casual conversation with one of HER friends. She used to be overprotective of me. She just all of a sudden changed.
Now, I feel like I did something wrong, & since I have OCD, I keep obsessing over it, & I can't get it off my mind. It's bothersome to the point where I can't even think straight.
Answers: My neighbor was very nice to me when I 1st met her. Now she treats me like a maggot-faced alien, & I asked her what I did for her to feel like I alienated her from me, & then she made an excuse to walk away from me by lying & said she had to go to work, & then I saw her having a casual conversation with one of HER friends. She used to be overprotective of me. She just all of a sudden changed.
Now, I feel like I did something wrong, & since I have OCD, I keep obsessing over it, & I can't get it off my mind. It's bothersome to the point where I can't even think straight.
don't beat yourself up!!! sometimes we can't get along with everyone. from now on just casually give her a wave and if she wants to talk then talk if not that's OK. it is alright not to be friends with everyone. maybe she's the one with the problem.
mayb u think u could have done stomthing to stop the mean ness. like mayb u think u could have prevented it from happeneing
learn to move on...
people will do some strange things in life... so hey just move on...
You don't need them anyways' , you have alot of people here you can spend time with... and have fun'...
:)) time to do just that'... come on' time to have fun now...
Sometimes people can be cruel, but sometimes they just don't understand when someone has a disorder so they just ignore that person. I hope you weren't rude to her in any way. Sometimes people just burn out on people. Just chill out and then find someone else to focus your attention on. Don't let it get to you. It'll blow over , just give her some space and she'll be back. Be kind. Sometimes we never know what's going on in a persons mind. Just calm down and think things out. Don't do anything rash or say anything bad. She just probably wants time to herself.
shes probably just being shallow an isnt a godd person after all