ONE tip to treat a loved one with BORDERLINE DISORDER ?!


Question: i doubt you can treat but here is one tip to help: "SUPPORT THEM AND LOVE THEM UNCONDITIONALY, MAKE SURE THEY KNOW THAT YOUR THER FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT"


Answers: i doubt you can treat but here is one tip to help: "SUPPORT THEM AND LOVE THEM UNCONDITIONALY, MAKE SURE THEY KNOW THAT YOUR THER FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT"

I assume you've scoured the web for information about Borderline Personality Disorder -- if not, then do it - there's lots of info. A starting point is http://www.bpdcentral.com

Several other tips -

1) Learn about Codependency
2) Learn about "Expressed Emotion"
3) Learn about Dialectical Behavior Therapy
4) I know it may be impossible, by try not to take personally the behavior of your loved one if it's due to the disorder. Think of it as symptoms of any other disorder, whether it be arthritis or epilepsy.
5) Most important - take care of YOURSELF - do not let someone else's disorder take you down with them. You are there to lift the person up and if you lack the strength to do it, then they will bring you down and you will be of no help to them.

I wish the best of luck for you and your loved one. It's not going to be an easy road but don't give up - you both will need the courage to change the things that you can, the serenity to accept the things you cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Run Run Run
Believe me you want to get as far way as far can get when it comes to a B.P.D
They will manipulate you use emotional black mail on you and set things up so that no matter what you do you will not win

I dated a borderline man was she ever a piece of work she had me so tied up in knots I thought I was rope,,,

You know the sad thing about borderlines is ?
they can cure them self's all they half to do is change their behavior . But 99% are not willing to change it

Dont make the mistake I made people warned me about Bordlines and I did not lisen ,,,biggest mistake I have ever made ,,,,
Remember Borderline personality is a behavioral problem not a mental illness
The one trip you should make is run from this person

You must remember that at all times, you are number one. Do not let yourself become worn out. you must be firm and learn to say no very often if you cannot get to do things soon enough for your patient.

It is also a matter you necessarily must discuss with health professionals.





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