Is it normal to??!
Question: cry...when watchin tv/ reminiscing about an old bf...or someone whom you loved? that happened to me tonight...i was remembering my ex of almost 3 yrs..and i felt so bad. So much time has passed, but the memory of him still makes me weak. I have not been in love or loved anyone after him (been 3 years). I've dated but have not felt that connection with anyone...and it makes me sad.
Answers: cry...when watchin tv/ reminiscing about an old bf...or someone whom you loved? that happened to me tonight...i was remembering my ex of almost 3 yrs..and i felt so bad. So much time has passed, but the memory of him still makes me weak. I have not been in love or loved anyone after him (been 3 years). I've dated but have not felt that connection with anyone...and it makes me sad.
I've done the same thing many times. It is really easy to think about an old boyfriend when you've just had a blazing fight with your husband about who's turn it is to wake up with the baby. Unfortunately memories of the past tend to be very selective and in a tough time only the really awesome parts of a past relationship come to mind. He probably wasn't as perfect as you remember, even if you were very in love. There probably even was a reason you broke up, though now you don't know how you could have let him go. Remember that it was great and a really good time in your life. Be thankful that now you have a bar that future men in your life have to live up to so you'll know you've met someone you really love. It'll keep you from settling for someone adequate just to be in a relationship. If you continue to let yourself wish you were back together with him you will really keep yourself stuck in a hole. You won't focus on your future, career/school/new experiences and especially new potential soul mates. :-) Talk to yourself and decide to let it go keeping in mind the standard you now have for any future relationships. Be thankful you were able to love so freely. Not a lot of people can do that. Be happy you have done things that not a lot of people can do and look forward to what else you can accomplish. Good luck and I hope you can find happiness in real time and not only in rewind.
Totally normal, just because that time in your life has passed, does not mean that you have to stop caring...If you didn't have these feelings you would not be human. Maybe you should try to contact him and catch up...Good luck and cheer up! There are plenty of guys out there for you, and you will find the right one when you least expect it!!!
its been 6 yrs for me and its eatten right thro me to were i dont cry any more or just give a care for any thign or any 1 i feel empty and emotionless dont let this happen trust me find some 1 u can talk to about it
Yes it's normal, especially if your still upset about breaking up with your ex. Try and think about more positive things that have happened in your life! Look forward instead of backwards! You'll find another, keep trying!
Good luck.
totally and completely normal. people that close to you leave something behind in your memory and heart and no matter how much time passes. Maybe you should try to reconnect with him.