Does any one else get a horrible surpressed anger feeling and anxiety when?!


Question: they cannot meet the unreasonable demands of their parents? I get it and it is awful. I am in my early 40's.


Answers: they cannot meet the unreasonable demands of their parents? I get it and it is awful. I am in my early 40's.

Yes and for some reason my mum's voice is always in my head like a conscience whether it be right or wrong. It makes me feel guilty but then i have to remind myself that my opinions are just as reasonabe if not more so because i'm the only one who knows what i really want and what's good for me. It's tough but mum's don't always have the right answer.

Yes, I stopped talking to my father 2 years ago. He is abusive and yells at me on the phone all of the time. If someone is not healthy for you to be around then sometimes, it is time to get away from that person. I know they are our parents but they should not make you sick. I whole heartedly understand you.

Yes, sometimes I do.

My dad was my best friend- loving and kind and fun and now he's passed away.

My mum who I get on with now in short bursts- got me down so much- i left home when i turned 17 and I had to threaten her with a solicitor to get her away from me. I haven't reached my 40's yet- I was about 25 when i said- enough is enough!! Now, I tell her exactly how it is. Any of her old martyr nonsense and complaining and the phone goes down, or i cut off contact. She's actually starting to behave for the better now. She can actually talk to me and and my siblings without criticism for a whole hour! I couldn't have waited until i'm 40- or i'd be in a funny farm.

Yes I was an only child so I know all about that. People think only children get spoit! It's the opposite I can tell you when you find out your were never wanted





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