I need to tell someone?!


Question: I dont have a question, I just need to get some stuff off my chest.
Ok I am very depressed, I have tried to kill myself at least 5 times and I cut myself.
The people I love dont know any of this and I wouldnt dare tell them. They would hate me and be very disappointed and I cant deal with that.
I am destined to die and I promise I will kill myself cos I have no reason and no purpose to stay.
So thanks for listening.


Answers: I dont have a question, I just need to get some stuff off my chest.
Ok I am very depressed, I have tried to kill myself at least 5 times and I cut myself.
The people I love dont know any of this and I wouldnt dare tell them. They would hate me and be very disappointed and I cant deal with that.
I am destined to die and I promise I will kill myself cos I have no reason and no purpose to stay.
So thanks for listening.

You have major depression. Plz get help NOW.

But if you insist on killing yourself, I suggest 25 tablets of paracetamol - less painful, less messy & more effective than cutting your wrist (sometimes you don't cut deep enough)

DONT DO THAT

dont do it.
U just told us that they love you, the would be devistated if you did this.. please just dont do it;; just cry and cry.. it will make you feel better.


PLEASE just dont kill ur self.. no-one is destined to die NO-ONE!!!!!!

listen to me..

I suffer from regular and deep depression. I have been suicidal and tried it 3 times.
You are wrong to think that the people you love would hate you for speaking out.
They would be far more distressed if you were to kill yourself without giving them the chance to help.
Please believe me, I know from experience that I am right.
Confide.
Admit your vunerability.
No one expects you to be superman!
Good luck.... and talk.
X

ok no u need to live you could be the next president, you could be a hero, you could have a family and kids and you are giving that all up. You could do anything you want to, you have people you love to get you through all the hard things you are going through. Just know that killing yourself will not do anything. Do you really want to be remembered as the coward who was scared to face your fears of depression and sadness?? i hope you decide to live :)

well i hope u still living wen u read this......but try to get a friend, someone who will listen to your problems someone to talk to meet ppl in a chat room find someone on tha street please do something and do not kill yurself!!!!....everybody was put here for a reason...one day u'll have a kid and see that it was all worth it!

I'm sorry you feel this way. Venting helps :) I've been feeling the same way for about 2 years now and honestly, if you were to tell someone you love, it will definitely help. You just need support. Oh and everyone and everything has a purpose in life, you really just need to find yours which I'm sure you will.
:)

Ok. I have read your bit.

Please tell your family. They do love you and can help you get the help you need. Counseling would help you I promise. I have a child who has had suicidal thoughts and counseling is making him feel better. Your family would rather you tell them ...then having to attend your funeral. They would never ever hate you. I am a parent and trust me I know that for a fact that they would give their life for you. Do not change their lives by hurting yourself. They will never be the same and you will never have the chance to be a parent or follow dreams you may have. I will pray for you. You are important and you are loved.

No no no! don do that! if u rili love ur family, think abt how they wud feel if ur gone.. they wud think that they r bad parents.
i know things can get rili hard... i tried to kill myself twice becos i got so depressed.. talking to my frens only help to relieve my pain for a while.. in class i always use a pen and hurt myself.. no one even notice.. it was like self made tatoo.. it didnt hurt at all at that tym cos i was in so much pain alr..
no one in my family knows abt it either.. i only confided in frens..
i know things can get out of hand and u cant take it anymore..
take it as a challenge, it will make u stronger..
god gave u the gift of life.. do u tink he'll be happy if u waste it.. r u sure ur ready to face wats going to happen in the afterlife?
things are going to get better.. always keep urself busy.. if home is ur source of depression.. don stay there.. stay sumwhere else.. anything else is better than dying..

i was like u once.. but i met my GF( who had tried commiting suicide 5 times too) and im the happiest gal alive.. im a bisexual yes... but anything is way better than suicide..

think it over ok?

You would not dare tell the people you love? What will they feel when they are confronted with your corpse?
What will you think, feel after you have left your body, given up on an opportunity that the gods in the highest heavens wish they had? Remorse? Agony? Wish to be back and do a better job?
Why not think about how you can help someone and earn some self-satisfaction and contentment?

Here's a hug from me to you.

HUG!

It's not much but I hope it can make
a small difference.

You might think that you're in your lowest point
in your life but just hang on...

Why?

'Cause you still have to experience how
it feels to be on TOP of it.

This is why you know you're ALIVE:
you feel pain, anguish, sorrow - BUT-
there's also joy, amazement and gladness.

Thanks for sharing.

By the way don't hesitate to be
honest and open.
Or ask help for your problems
you might be surprised
that there are some people who truly care
About you.

First things first: You do have a purpose in life. You said so yourself on your answers page: "I'm only here to help people. i like giving advice is all." Please tell me how you manage to accomplish that after you kill yourself?

The people you love would like to know that you are feeling very depressed. They would hate to find out after the fact that you were suicidal and they weren't given the chance to help you. They won't hate you at all. They will be upset because they care for you and want you to get better.

I think it would help you if you wrote all of your feelings down. Keep a journal when you are feeling like you can't take it anymore. That way you can express what you think and how you feel without being judged by anybody.

I also think you have great knowledge about computers and stuff. You seem to be an honest person with a good heart. (I can tell by the answers you've given ppl on here.) It would be a shame to give up now.

Please don't do it! Life is precious and such a gift. There is nothing worth giving up your life for.

You must tell the people that you love. They would never hate you, they would get you the help that you need because they love you.

You think they would be disappointed to hear that you are suicidal? What kind of grief would they go though after finding your body? Do you realize how horrible and sad they will feel and they may even blame themselves for not seeing that you were in trouble? Do you know that they will spend a lifetime wondering if there was something they could have done to help you? I think these feelings are much more important and likely should you commit suicide. Do you really want to sentence your loved ones to that kind of hell? How fair is that?

Everyone on Earth was born for a reason and has a purpose to be here. You just haven't found out what yours is yet.

Please, please call 911, tell someone, do something to help yourself. You are worth so much more. I beg you, don't do it.

EDIT: If you put this question up just for sympathy and attention, I would be okay with that. However, adding that nothing anybody says is going to stop you and that its all planned out is just plain mean and abusive. Shame on you! All of these people reached out to you with care and support and you return the favor by basically saying F*** You!
I'm going to find a question to answer for someone that really wants help and not to F*** with people's heads and emotions.

my dear friend
all of us are destined to die not to kill oneself or others
It is good thing that you have decided to tell others to tell your problems to others now.
you are on the first step to recovery.
God has a purpose in creating every living being including humanbeings especially you.
Life is worth living.
Think you are Great.
Love is something comes back to us multifolded when we start Loving each and everything everybody around us.
God has blessed you with good health and without any deformities.you take ur daily bread without problem I hope.
you see on the earth there are lot of children with deformities ,
and many physically disabled children and many orphanages with lot of uncared for children and many homes for senior citizens who are left uncared for by their own children.
If you attach yourself with any one of these organisation and serve them with real Love aand affection and you will really realise the meaning for living.
pls note that living is living for others and not only for us.
Last but the least pls read any book by NORMAN VINCENT PEALE very inspiring and practical which will really help you at this situation.
pls keep visiting any church father and tell your problems frequently.
will you keep in touch with me thru mail for more personal interactions please
with love and affections
pls visit www.pharmawebonline.com

Write to
jo@samaritans.org

I am first so you can't be stop the world I want to get off.

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I don't want you to die!

You may be destined to die, but not by your own hands.

One of my friends had a close friend that killed himself after several attempts & she was too shy to tell him she loved him. He will never know the beauty of her love. That still makes me sad.





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