How do I make myself happy?!
Question: I feel so lost right now. I know my family and friends love me. The problem is I hate myself very much. Everytime I look in the mirror I feel like a mistake. Sometimes I wish I was not even alive. I know I can only make myself happy. Whatever I do it never works.
Answers: I feel so lost right now. I know my family and friends love me. The problem is I hate myself very much. Everytime I look in the mirror I feel like a mistake. Sometimes I wish I was not even alive. I know I can only make myself happy. Whatever I do it never works.
honey, this is exactly what almost all teens and pre-teens go through at least once in their life... i know how you feel, so much of your life counts on people think of you, but when you are in a ceirten age group you start worrying more about what you think of yourself... eat some yummy food like chocolate which always helps people feel better... but if you are having acmy problems or shiny skin and it doesn't help you feel better to think the chocolate makes your skin greasy, than eat strawberies, they always help me!!! when you look in the mirror maybe put on some sun glasses (they usually make people feel cool)...
listenning to music usually helps people feel better!!!there are some songs for the kind of problems you are gowing through, that i can recommend: "peeding cars" by imogen heap, it talks about problems of adolecents. "welcome to my life" not a song that i really like, but it sort of relates to your sad feelings.
most importantly, don't hate yourself, part of growing up is learning is to trust youself, believe in yourself, love yourself and have dignaty in yourself!!! honor your life and do NOT throw it away!!!
try to think happy thoughts and remember how many people love you that are worth sticking arround for!!!!
good luck!!!
i no how you feel. my friend was like that and then she started to cut her wrists. it made me really sad to see her do that to herself.
try to find something you like about yourself. i dont really like myself but if i had to pick something it would be my feet. it sounds silly but try it. i pay all my attention to my feet and im so happy with the way they look that it makes me happy lol.
you can also try to be excited about something. schedule a haircut and have a countdown till it. that might be exciting. change makes me happy.
hope this helps!
May sound odd but do you have a Myspace? If you do then use it to let it all out, you can even set it to private. Or you can keep it public to meet new people. With all of the quotes and songs you can add and saying what you want to is easier when you write sometimes then speaking. I love mine, you can add me...I have a link just click my avatar here.
ummmmmmmmm........ professional help?