Depressed advice die or live?!


Question: i have looked all over yahoo answers if there are any good things to do when your depressed to keep you away from cutting, or what not.
everyday i go through the same regimen.
wake up, work, gym, cut myself shower, cry and sleep.
i am so depressed which i am admiting.
today i have a big urge to die.
the girl i love doesnt love me back.
in fact she broke up with me a week n half ago.
i know she doesnt like being lonely and she will move onto a dickface that stole her off me. in which he did really well.
i know his intentions are bad because he told someone else about his intentions on her.
today shes out with him and i am afraid of what could happen between them. if anything does then i will be upset because i definately havent had enough time to cool down.
i know she feels something for me but for some stupid reason she keeps telling me and even if i do fall in love i will not be with you.
she says we are not meant to be etc.
i do not know how to prove it to her that i need her...


Answers: i have looked all over yahoo answers if there are any good things to do when your depressed to keep you away from cutting, or what not.
everyday i go through the same regimen.
wake up, work, gym, cut myself shower, cry and sleep.
i am so depressed which i am admiting.
today i have a big urge to die.
the girl i love doesnt love me back.
in fact she broke up with me a week n half ago.
i know she doesnt like being lonely and she will move onto a dickface that stole her off me. in which he did really well.
i know his intentions are bad because he told someone else about his intentions on her.
today shes out with him and i am afraid of what could happen between them. if anything does then i will be upset because i definately havent had enough time to cool down.
i know she feels something for me but for some stupid reason she keeps telling me and even if i do fall in love i will not be with you.
she says we are not meant to be etc.
i do not know how to prove it to her that i need her...

It's very simple. You are head-over-heels in love with this girl. That's the diffrence. The reason you're hurting is because you invested so much time and devotion to her and now she's off with some d-bag. Take it from me, my GF dumped me 2 months ago for some guy. She claimed to "love" me too but people like that can't truly be with just one person. I was just like you with the hurting and cutting but ask yourself this question: Is she really worth you if she makes you cut and bleed? The answer is no,bro. This may not make sense now because you're on an emotion rollercoster but when you come down you will see a simple fact. SHE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU! It's her loss bro. I know you want to be there for her and protect her but she probably couldn't even help herself. You sound like a good guy too, you have so much to live for! The best thing you can do (this helped me) is to surround yourself with a few close friends. You can hold onto her memory, but you have to let her go. Time heals all wounds, friend. You just have to hold on and let everything sort itself out. I KNOW it's hard... I do. But eventually your heart will sort everything out. Take care and stay strong man. I know you can do it! -Micky

she prolly does love u
she prolly doesnt love yer depression
u need professional advice

try to mega dose b vitamin supps
it helped me

if she doesn't realize how much you care about her then she's not for you. please, please don't kill yourself. you need to see a therapist and need to stop cutting yourself. it's not healthy. what you need to do is break out of that routine you have going and try to feel something different than sorrow and loneliness. it might be hard at first but try to do something fun that will make you feel happy. talk to a friend about this too, someone who cares about you :)

Gosh, this reminds me of my ex, Dustin. I recenlty broke up with him, and he is uber depressed - keeps saying he loves me etc. etc.
Coming from the femanine side of the situation, I can tell you that she cares for you, but not as strongly as you care for her. The best thing to do is to remain friends with her, and not ruin things by trying to get her back. She will like you more if you accept the break up.
And, the ever popular line, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things will get better, just let nature run it's course and don't interfere. =]]
Best of luck.

live

love hey, there is so many girls out there, a girl is definelty not worth dieing for.you probably have so much to live for, and when your a lot older, youl think back and be SO grateful that you didnt take your life. just live it up hey, who cares about girls, i know it is hard, but try and get over her...

wow you are actually in a MUCH better position than I am.

Im in worse relationship situation, alone... and Im not as fit. At least you work at everyday mate.

But look into the future. I really do see a good one for you. You do well career/school wise. Be happy and passionate about your goals... and things automatically come.

You seem to have a good head on your shoulders and you should not kill yourself over any girl. Listen you seem to have some sort of profession in body building. You look like a very handsome guy. I do know how you feel i have been modeling for a while and have lost my BF after five years. At one point in my life i wanted to die. What was the point in living if he didnt want me. Nobody would want me. Well that is a crock of crap but it took me almost five years to realize that and one month hospitalized over it. I would cut myself and burst out in fits of anger.
Just like me you have to realize that there is someone out there for you no matter what. If she is out there with some other guy right now why should you bother?? Did you cut while you were with her? Because if you did maybe she was tired of it..
You cant control what is going to happen in the future you can only take a day at a time and I Know it can feel like an eternity. Reach out to someone a friend or family but do not harm yourself. DONT DO IT.
If you need someone to talk to email me. I would be more than happy to help you through this!!!! See theres people who care and they dont even know.
STAY STRONG

The funny thing about girls is this, they find the men that don't lavish all of their attention/life, every waking moment on them much more attractive than the ones that don't. You have to stop living your life to please and involve her in your life. As a woman, I can tell you, an confident man with his own life and own interests outside of just us but who still love and want us, is a hundred times more attractive than one who "lives to only be with us" - "to look after us". So, as for the girl, write this one off to experience - if you had love then trust me - please - from experience - you will love again. and the next time you will have learned from this one.
As for your boredom and routine life, hey, you know what?... this is normal, it doesn;t last forever, but every mature normal adult has this life. What do you expect - a magical geenie arriving every night?, a fairy tale happening while you are at work?, a TV version of life?.... wake up, you have a normal life. The good news, it can only get better from here...that is what you have to concentrate on....when you are at the bottom - you know that it can only go up from here. So make a promise to yourself that you will start doing more that do not deal with you feeling sorry for yourself or thinking about a girl you lost...by the way - we have all lost a love that we felt was " the one", get over yourself.....and join the rest of the world, and then, wear it on your sleeve like a medal. You got over it and are looking to make a life with someone who loves you and who you love. It will come again. Now get on with your life, and remember you are not alone., It hurts, but not living your life to the fullest and seeing what might be around the corner hurts way more........ Good luck!!!

come on! wake up! it's only a girl! don't waste your time and your life on these things. just accept the fact that life is not only full of things we want to have and to be. life is also unfair and it seems this is one of it and there's more to come.

there are many people in the world who are having worst and complicated problems than you have such as people with incurable illness, poverty etc. but what do they do? they try to accept the facts and head on with their life to the fullest and hoping that they will find the answer in the future.

don't push yourself to accept what is happening right now. take it slowly and live your life to the fullest. let days or even months past and one morning, you will realize that everything is ok now....

we have a saying in my native country, "don't force a fruit to ripen because you will never achieve it's fullest sweetnest like if you just let it ripe itself through time"..... i hope that i helped you.....

be happy and think that dilemmas are natural in our lives. you're not the only one experiencing it right now and lots of people have bigger problems but they are trying to face it as long and much as they can.....

oh as for the girl....let her learn her lesson on her own. don't force things because what you think is for her good doesn't mean it will work for her. if you know the guy will do something bad then let it be. you tried your best and she didn't believed in you. it's her fault so she is the one responsible on the consequence of her action. let her realize her mistakes because that is where she will learn.....like what i said above here, life is not what we just want....it's also unfair

u need to go to a doctor. you will not look bad for getting help! it may save your life! talk to family or freinds. it will help you and make you feel better to get it all out. find a hobby. do something you like. fake happiness, you will feel happier. remember, some people's lives are worse than your own. dont do urself in for a stupid bi*@h!! there are better people out there for you!

ps...no one will want to be with someone who is so selfish to only think about theirselves (and not the people around them who love them)by talking suicide and no one wants that much drama in their life! i wouldnt be with a guy who talks about killing theirself! its immature and i got too much drama in my life to be with a guy like that! trust me, it WONT get her back! pretend ur happy without her, and she will start to wonder. and for some reason, when u play hard to get and pretend ur happier without them-they want u back. trust me-ive done it!

I have to tell you something very important first of all. In order
to love someone else, you must first love yourself. You have
nothing to offer anyone if you can't love yourself. That's means taking good care of yourself in all ways. Having a healthy mind and body. This other guy man be a dick, and you sound like a great guy. Many women would be lucky to have someone like you. This girl does not see you for who you really are, and I think you need to understand that maybe
she needs to be with a jerk to understand what you really do
have to offer her. I understand your upset that she is with him,
I really do, but you must know that your so much better than him. Don't do something stupid like hurting yourself in anyway, cause when this girl does come to her senses, she
will probably turn to you, so just try and get through this time,
and know your not alone in your feelings. Many of us have
gone through the same thing. I'm going to also tell you, that
even if this girl does not end up with you, you will find someone that does want to be with you , cause guys like you are hard to find. You will be happier with someone who respects you from the start.
Being rejected and feeling alone, are the hardest times in
our lives. But you have to realize that all the people you
become interested in may not feel the same. Just like your
not going to be into every girl that likes you. Do yourself a
favour and give yourself a break. Dying for her is not an answer. It's an end to everything. I have had my heart broken
many times, and I'm married now to a man that I thought only
existed in dreams. The point is I beleive things happen for
a reason. If I had stayed with some of the other people in
my life, I would not be with my husband now. You will find someone who loves you like crazy, just don't feel the need to
react to this situation now. I promise you will feel better soon.
I know it's hard now, but please give yourself time.

I married my perfect lady, four days short of four months later, she died from a long hard fight with liver disease. I didn't want to go on either, I had to. I had two young children who needed their dad, and couldn't understand what had happened to a stepmother they adored. (we had been best friends for nearly 3 years before we got married) That was nearly 4 years ago. I met and married a new best friend, she and my kids adore each other, I love her kids, and from a lot of torn up loose ends we made a close-knit loving family.
This girl did you a favor. She saw something in you which attracted her, but in the end, saw something that made her feel that you weren't meant for each other. I'm guessing from your story that you are possessive, maybe a bit intense, from the picture you chose for an icon, I'm guessing somewhat narcissistic. I doubt that proving you need her is the problem, you may have come across as too needy. Since you threw this out looking for suggestions here is one. Forget the whole relationship thing for awhile, get to know yourself. Realize that while having someone in your life is nice when you find the right person and the time is right, You do not need a wife/girlfriend, whatever, your life is the cake, a good relationship is the icing. Finish baking the cake before you try to ice it. Read about co-dependence. Talk to someone about it, a pastor, counselor, anyone.





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