How to overcome pornsites addiction?!
Question: hi
i m 17 m from india. due to some reasons i got addicted to pornsites but i m now tring to get rid of it but cant overcome. can u help me? plz
take care bye.
thanks
Answers: hi
i m 17 m from india. due to some reasons i got addicted to pornsites but i m now tring to get rid of it but cant overcome. can u help me? plz
take care bye.
thanks
1.first be well determined to yurself. clear your goal.......
2.create a wallpaper of something like " no porn sites" on yur pc.it shud be big n set to desktop...
3. set ur homepage of some joke sites(may be sexual)
4. develop other interests
5. dont click on porn links in other websites...
u can do dis easily........best of luck........
just say no.
get rid of your comp.
Stop visiting them and do better things with your time. Like actually meeting REAL girls.
get the real deal. LOL if you know what I mean! =)
smash your computer, get a dog and take a walk
Don't go on your computer, that why you won't be tempted to look on the sites.
Hmmmm, the best advice i can give u is probably for you is to just stop watching it. i'm sure it isn't that hard. lol
just buy cheap hookers they are cheaper than the sites and its like 10 time better!!
dont open those websites. spam those websites.
Go get some real A S S : )
accountability software,
something that monitors what sites you go to and sends a report of the bad ones to a trusted friend.
google x3watch
its a free program
just get a girlfreind u got all the porn u need
At 17, you and the rest of the world. Try and limit yourself, easy out gradually. Its kinda normal, but if you start associating normal sex with porn there will be problems.
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You see now why parents teachers, educator and priests insist so hard on avoiding all products of pornography. Well, if you've already developed a hard addiction you may need professional help from a psychologist. Anyhow I would recommend you to pray to God to make you free of all that disgusting junk. Never ever touch it again in your life.
I would recommend a book, called "every Mans Battle" by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker. It is a guide to Winning the War on sexual temtaption.
It is from a Christian point of view, but has numerous testimonies of successful recoveries, from Porn to Lust to infidelity.
It is noble that you would try to stay away from pornsites.
In the mean time maybe have a friend install a filter on your computer, that keeps you from seeing porn, if your friend installs it, you wont be tempted to unistall it especially if he puts a password on it to protect it
Well the first thing is admitting you have a problem then turn your freakin' computer off. If you keep playing with yourself in front of the computer, you'll never have a chance for the real stuff. Besides aren't you tired of cleaning the sticky stuff off your keyboard?
block them.
and get a real girl.
Have the doctor cut your thing.
Porn sites are intended for those who cannot (for one reason or another) get the genuine article. Now you may as well give up this bad acquired habit because I HAVE THE WORLD'S BEST COLLECTION--except for Indian babes, who are truly beautiful! The best advice I can offer for the moment is "to limit yourself to ONE particular site or else get a timer and set it for one hour, no more, after which your computer gets shut off. But it does seem that YOU NEED FRIENDS, since you are probably viewing the babes alone in your room, and with friends you'd be engaged in other activities and pursuits!
You are not alone. At least you are humbled enough to admit you have a problem. I know you probably dont want to hear this but, Tell God about your problem, read the Bible to feed your spirit, and pray about it. Also, stay away from it. Call a friend or leave the house when you get the urge. It has a stronghold over you and you cant do it alone. Dont be ashamed. Society makes it so easy to expose yourself to these things and tells you it's o.k. But it's not, The old devil works in mysterious ways.
Addictions like this are defined by their impact on your normal life. If you are playing games, watching TV or looking at porn, and it is not effecting your life, then it is not a problem.
If you are looking porn, instead sleeping, studying or other things then it is an addiction. If looking at porn involves looking at it in public places and gets you into trouble often, then it is an addiction.
So what can you do? Firstly you need to concentrate on your life, study and other things. Your goal is not to eliminate porn from your life, but to reduce it so that you can get on with your life.
Maybe restrict the time of the day or night you look at porn, maybe look at bikini models instead of hard core porn.
Alternatively you can substitute something else for looking at porn, eg, reading comics or playing online games.
Porn in moderation is good but if you find yourself on it in the daytime insted of going out and it affects real life then it's a problem.
You should try and keep porn to night time (before bed) or something, try and avoid it in the day that way you can look foreward to it and you wont feel too withdrawn.
Try and do more things in the day like cycle or go out with friends perhaps a gym or working out?
i think it's no addiction-only filling a gap in you-but take it as educational ; else you will dry up soon! When the gap is filled then you will be fed up automatically but the craze to come now and then will persist I think for ever with the new editions at love making.
First, do not label it as bad thing nor a good thing, this only creates conflict because you may want to have sex but it get pushed down as something you should not want. The other way is true as well which is to say if you say its good then it become an overriding interest which begins to overshadow areas in your life. You want sex to be a natural thing, something to not be avoid but at the same time not pursued with great attachment. The second thing to do is begin to understand the urge to look at porn sites. I think you should get a book or diary to write down how you feel about porn and why you look at them. Write down your thoughts every day whenever the urge springs to you to look at porn sites. Ask, question about how the women are betrayed in porn and how men are betrayed in porn and how do you feel about this. What is the psychological conditioning that has established itself within you says dont look at porn or why is looking at naked women and men having sex is so important to you? Dig deep into this, but more importantly look at how all this stuff is coming up inside yourself. If you can begin to see what porn does to you, and understand it how it plays in your life then sex and its expression in your life will fall where it need to be. You may still look at porn still but you may look at it not as frequently or it may drop completely out of your life but try to be attentive and sensitive to what is taking place inside you. Watch with interest but do not try to solve a way out of it but look at it with a distance and interest to understand it completely. The solutions to get out of problems in human life sometimes leads to greater conflict and misery. Do not beat yourself up for it. Do not judge yourself that you are a bad person or a good person. You are a human being with urges like every other human being.
I hope this helps you. It is just my two cents of opinion.