Friend cutting herself answer ASAP?!


Question: My friend Kayle put some some pictures of her chest on myspace. I told her to take it off and she wont. I found out that she is cutting herself. I have known her for 4years and I know how her mind works. I know she does not love herself. She wants attention and I also think that she was a lot of problems with herself. She has been poping pills. She took 10 at one time. She is 19. She does not talk to her family and I have no idea where they are.


Answers: My friend Kayle put some some pictures of her chest on myspace. I told her to take it off and she wont. I found out that she is cutting herself. I have known her for 4years and I know how her mind works. I know she does not love herself. She wants attention and I also think that she was a lot of problems with herself. She has been poping pills. She took 10 at one time. She is 19. She does not talk to her family and I have no idea where they are.

If she is cutting herself, she is harming herself. Therefore I'm sure you can admit her to the psychiatric facility right away! Anyone who is harming themselves or others have the right to be admitted to your nearest psychiatric facility. There is a reason why she is doing this, if you can figure it out, someone needs to figure out why. If she just needs someone to talk to or even medication she will be able to get some help there. If you really want to help her & you know she is cutting herself for sure. I would find out your hometown psychiatric facility and call them and tell them about your friend and how you would like to help her but don't know what you should do. You might just be able to admit her anonymously. If I were you I would help this friend! If her family doesn't know about it and only you know about it , its up to you to get your friend some help! Hope this helps! Good luck!

what's her myspace url?

wow,maybe you should send her into some kind of program or something before she even thinks about commiiting suicide
sorry to hear that

Try talking to her about how she feels and try to be understanding. People who cut themselves may seem crazy but it is their way of releasing anger or such feelings upon themselves. Maybe try convincing her to see a counselor too? It could be the beginning of a new chapter for her. And with regards to family, if you cannot find her family don't worry, a friend's help can always go a long way.

I'm not exactly sure what your question is if you cant find her family ask someone at a hospital maybe she needs to be committed

I have been in the hospital for doing that and i still do it. Nothing can help me. councelling,medication,God, nothing.What helps me is someone that is there and tels me its alright. and tell me how much they love me. and the world aint perfect to others either. But find someone that hurts worse and that has a way worse life than hers so they can talk to her. it will help i promise. but about hte chest thing. i have did that same ting cause i want attention, and i wanted boys/girls to be all over me in a heart beat. but that dont do nothing later in life cause that was 2 years ago i am now 17 and i have had a lota fueds with people about how i do.

I HOPE I HELP! =]

she needs help an their not much that you can do until she whats help
best of luck to you

She has a serious problem and there is not all that much you can do about it

What ever you try and do she will go back to doing it

The only time any thing can be truly done is when she is taken to the hospital emergency room and a report is filed.

Why because she is an adult and some people do this type of things to themselves for what is called turn on

So just watch in a way and learn what not to do by what she is doing.
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well if she has health insurance bc she does works i think u should force her to see a psychologist. her symptoms sound like a lot of people who cut themselves. they want attention, they cut to relieve the emotional pain they are feeling, they want someone to love them and yet they hate themselves and they don't think anyone will ever love them. she's probably really hurting emotionally and she needs to talk to a professional.

she need professional help, if you just found out that she cuts herself then you really dont know how she thinks... just call your nerest hospital and ask if they have a psych department of if they have a place they can refer you to

Well, try to convince her to go to a therapist, try to help her out of the states she's in, I'm sure this should help.

Hmm... well, if she doesn't want any professional help, just lock her up in a room with nothing she can use to do self harm for a few hours...

JK JK

Try getting her some help and track down her family. She just wants attention, right? Well, if talking to her nicely doesn't help, be BRUTAL. Yell at her, scare her, let her know that this is totally dumb and it scares you, that you care about her.

Sorry to hear about this, I had a friend who did this just for fun and attention. A bunch of friends and I got together and did an intervention type thing and did yell at her about this stuff.
She hasn't cut herself since.

talk to her if that don't work talk to her parents if that don't work u could try 911 if she is suicidal.

self injury is a way to releasing emotions, try talking to your friend ask her what is making her feel she has to harm herself but becareful she may not want to talk about it, if she dose not dont get angry and dont take it personally,.
i have bin self injuring for a long time but when i first started i was ashamed, and wouldnt talk about it to anyone, now i am quiet open about it.
but the main thing is make sure that they know u are there for them!





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