I always alwaaaays worry?!
Question: I hate school, it always gets me nervous. I have social anxiety, and i always think the next day one of my friends are going to hate me, and stop talking to me then it will be weird when i pass them in the halls, then i will quit school.
I live in Canada, but it's my DREAM to move to New York city. I just want to think i don't need them, who cares if there mad at me? I'll be in a new state and won't have to worry about them anymore in 2 years.(im in grade 10)
Do you think, when im older i will think about how worked up i used to get, but there not here anymore?
sorry if this is confusing..!
Answers: I hate school, it always gets me nervous. I have social anxiety, and i always think the next day one of my friends are going to hate me, and stop talking to me then it will be weird when i pass them in the halls, then i will quit school.
I live in Canada, but it's my DREAM to move to New York city. I just want to think i don't need them, who cares if there mad at me? I'll be in a new state and won't have to worry about them anymore in 2 years.(im in grade 10)
Do you think, when im older i will think about how worked up i used to get, but there not here anymore?
sorry if this is confusing..!
I see what you mean. I believe all adolescents think somewhat in the manner. Some more than others. It may not seem like it now, but in a few years, you will have forgotten most of the things you feel now. The real world is a much bigger and scattered life than high school. Take a breath and remember that you have 70-80 years of life after high school. The rest of your life is what matters, not what has already happened.
Well is their a valid reason to think your friends are going to ditch you? You might just be overreacting. Then you go on to say that you won't need them anymore? Sounds to me like there might be problems in your relationships with your friends. Either work them out or find new ones.
Yea you will look back and probably laugh at yourself. But scary enough as it is, some people continue to be very sensitive as they get older. Books have been written saying that thats just how some people are born with (sensitivity) while other people actually learn to grow out or deal with it. (I forgot what the book was called, think its highly sensitive person in the self help section, its a boring book). Overall though, you will outgrow a lot of it and not care as much later on. But since you are in grade 10, youll definately for sure get better