I dont love anyone?!


Question: this isnt a matter of falling love, its a matter of everyone i know. i dont think i love anyone. and ive had an awesome life, parents that ppl would die for, a life that was more than satisfying and yet im empty and as horrible as it may sound i dont think id really react if someone very closed to me died. and i hate being touched by other ppl. idk is something severely psychological wrong with me?


Answers: this isnt a matter of falling love, its a matter of everyone i know. i dont think i love anyone. and ive had an awesome life, parents that ppl would die for, a life that was more than satisfying and yet im empty and as horrible as it may sound i dont think id really react if someone very closed to me died. and i hate being touched by other ppl. idk is something severely psychological wrong with me?

Mellow: The question didn't say Joe would die for someone, it said "parents that people would die for."

Anyway, I can understand where you're coming from. I hate being physically touched by people, don't like them getting to close to my space, have to have my alone time, and don't truly feel like I love anyone. It's possible that love has been hyped up and commercialized to the point that no one know what real love is. Maybe it's a useful evolutionary tactic for survival. I'm guessing I'm a bit of a loner, but I'm not sure about your situation. If it doesn't bother you, it's fine to not love anyone.

idk
i don't love people
i hate friendships
they're overrated
i can't stand people
but that's only because i look down upon everyone because they all seems ignorant...i have an IQ of 167....so it's hard for me to listen to someone without disagreeing

Joe, the fact that you said there are people you 'would die for' shows that you do care, you do love, you just feel a bit sad, and that's okay, that's life, wrap yourself around it, explore it and evolve beyond it. Making the steps to even ask this question is indicative of a caring intelligence, and the desire to learn and grow. This is a good thing, the world needs more people like you willing to be aware of themselves and ask questions. Listen to good music, and read some good books and let the energy of the world guide you out of this mental quandry.

I think the reason you feel this way is because you are young, and seem to have it easy. You've never faced any serious adversity. When something huge happens to you- like loss, you learn a lot more about yourself. Also, maybe you just have the wrong idea of what love is...love isn't an eharmony comercial. It's something you discover when you allow yourself to just be. I think when you have more life experience you will feel love, and understand to a greater detail what it is all about.

there is something psychological there,but i unfortunately forgot what term it is.try looking up psychological medical terms on goggle or webmd.com





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