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Question: I was mollested by two famiily members when i was younger. Is it possible it has messed me up more than I think?


Answers: I was mollested by two famiily members when i was younger. Is it possible it has messed me up more than I think?

probably more in the long run. you will be more resistant with future girlfriends, you'll always have a guard against thoughs you are closest too. im sorry this happened to you. i hope that you can overcome the many obsticles you will face in the future.

Not sure.
I was never abused.
you have the ability to control your thinking process and how you view others.

yes and yes. even as old as i am things come back at me from time to time

i never was but talk with someone and maybe it can be a friend or a doctor and remember its not your fault, good luck Hun

yes... u need to seek help. u need to understand why u have so much anger.

Yes it will come back when you are already down. When you would be depressed, these thoughts can come back and haunt you further, get help before it gets out of hand. First of all, try talking to someone you trust, you'll feel alot better. Take care.

only if you think it is go and talk to the two faily mebers and tell them how you feel and it messed you up and that waht they did was wrong and then kick there *** naw just kidding

dont dwell on it if you can help it. dont let your past become your future. a lot of successful people were abused. i know it is a horrible thing but try to let it go, like closing a chapter in your life and open up a positive one.
do good for yourself and let your abusers answer to God.
you did nothing wrong ! the abusers did.
so.. make a successful life for your self, they have already hurt you once, dont let them do it again. good luck !

Yes it's possible I delt/deal with verbal abuse.

I was also as a young child.
But I came to terms with it early in my teens.
I refused to let it control me. I wanted control over my life and wasnt going to be haunted by the past.
I know my sister had a very difficult time with it. But there were also other forms of abuse happening at the same time.
I chose to be better and move forward.
You have to find that strength to not let it cripple you.

Mentally abused by the school teachers...

No. But I've known others who have dealt with issues. The most important thing is knowing that these things are cyclic and that you don't pass this on to the next generation. Not making an excuse for what happened to you, but typically the abusees become the abusers later on. Good luck and lots of strength on your path to healing.

yes it could definately mess you up more than you think...I know of this workbook that I am using
it is called: the courage to heal

try it out





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