Is it normal for a 32 year old man to have a crush on the same girl as his 7 yea!
Question: My son really likes his 2nd grade teacher and after our parent-teacher conference I can see why. There's something about an intelligent, patient woman that's good with kids that really turns me on. I can't stop thinking about her. I think about her morning, noon and night. I think about her while I'm sleeping and I even think about her when I should be thinking about my wife. What's wrong with me?
Answers: My son really likes his 2nd grade teacher and after our parent-teacher conference I can see why. There's something about an intelligent, patient woman that's good with kids that really turns me on. I can't stop thinking about her. I think about her morning, noon and night. I think about her while I'm sleeping and I even think about her when I should be thinking about my wife. What's wrong with me?
It's perfectly normal. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
By the way, have I told you I'm glad you're back? You never fail to make me laugh.
oh wow you need to change the headline! lol
I almost cussed you out... errrr :)
I think its just infatuation for two totally differnt reasons...
But i cant help but wonder what your wife is like if her son and husband see a differnt woman and think her resume is a little bit better... Know what i mean? Maybe you BOTH are not getting from her what you need, she may not even realize it I would talk to her...
at first I was like WOAH PEDOPHILE!!
but after reading the details, I think it just seems like a harmless crush.
Like all things, it will pass.
lol I thought you were talking about a little girl. I was going to say you're sick. No there is nothing wrong with a crush
Sound alright to me :)
Nothing wrong with you, you have a crush on a woman who is intelligent and compassionate. It doesn't mean you have to act on it.
Phew! Thank goodness for the details!!
Nah it's all good. I mean, you wouldnt expect you 7y/o son to date his teacher would you? ;)
Everyone fantasises about other people whether it be film stars or teachers. Don't worry about it, although you might not want to admit this to him - won't do his fantasy any good.
Trust me - you're wife has had it away with Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt etc. a lot more times than she's admitted to you... ;)
Every so often, one will meet a very dynamic and magnetic type of individual that really impacts us. Maybe this woman has a lot of qualities that you really like, but don't see in your own wife and thus, you feel a strong attraction for her. It is normal. It happens to people.
Just make sure you can whoop his a** if it comes down to a fist fight over her...!
holly sh*t i though u were a child molester or petafile! omg, anyways, ur married so i would forget about it, although in the day and age people get new spouses like they switch channels, so if ur not happy get a divourse, do it fast before the economy collapses and we are spiraling into another great depression, and DONT SELL UR HOUSE!
I don't think there's anything wrong with finding your son's 2nd grade teacher attractive, but thinking about her constantly does indicate that something might be slipping in your marriage. Let's see, 2nd grade...your son's about seven years old, right? Could it be the seven year itch?
You might want to introduce a little reality into your fantasies. For instance, imagine what that intelligent, patient woman is like once she gets home from a day of teaching a classroom full of wild seven year olds. Do you want to have to talk her down from that frustration every evening? Not to mention the office politics we all have to deal with that also occur within the school system.
Then there are parent-teacher conferences, recitals, science fairs, grading papers, lesson plans for the next day...teachers are some of the most overworked and underpaid employees around. I doubt she'll be in much of a mood for patience or intelligent conversation at home, much less those things you should be saving for your wife now.
And imagine the germs she'd bring home on a daily basis!
However, if you still think she'd be worth the pain and effort of the divorce and the likelihood of losing daily contact with your own kids (but gaining more contact with everyone else's), then go ahead, stay "hot for teacher".
But before you take any action, I think you need an unbiased opinion of her qualities, which I will provide for you, purely out of the kindness of my heart. Give me a couple of weeks to get to know her, take her out for dinner so we can talk about any problems she might have, and um, size up her potential as a possible mate for you. I'll give you a full report when I'm done. I'll probably be sending it from Las Vegas (just a quick trip to make sure she doesn't have a gambling addiction.)
Now, what's the location of that school again?
CHEATER
go F urself