Im 13 and life crap help !?!
Question: hi im sam i am haveing problems recently my brother was diagnosed with cancer and then my mum walked out on us and also i have know one.i need help i dont know who to tell or what to do i started self harming and stuff but it makes me feel worse it feels like i dont have a mum anymore i only have a dad and barely see him someone please help me and make me smile for first time in a year thanks for your time sam
Answers: hi im sam i am haveing problems recently my brother was diagnosed with cancer and then my mum walked out on us and also i have know one.i need help i dont know who to tell or what to do i started self harming and stuff but it makes me feel worse it feels like i dont have a mum anymore i only have a dad and barely see him someone please help me and make me smile for first time in a year thanks for your time sam
i am so sorry to hear about ur pain. u r going through some major troubles. u have my sympathy. maybe ur mom just couldn't handle hearing about ur brother so she had to take some time out to collect her thoughts. after that she will realize that she can't just leave u guys hanging and come back and take care of u guys. don't harm urself, it makes u feel worse anyways, so u r not accomplishing anything by doing so. i hope everything works out for u. as 4 u brother, he has my prayers. cancer is a tough battle. i know, my mom died from it. if u ever feel like chatting, just email hun. <3
its ok. maybe you should start keeping a journal and write ur feelings down. maybe talk to your dad. you should stop selfharming cuz it will get you nowhere.
i hope you feel better!
You are experiencing a lot of losses all at once. It would be a good idea for you to speak to a counsellor that specializes in depression and bereavement. Maybe a teen center for counselling would be of great help.
Mama tomato,papa tomato, and baby tomato are walking down the street. Baby tomato keeps falling behind. Papa tomato turns around and says"ketchup"
Lame but funny
I think you really need to seek some counseling..i know it will help sweety..
Oh dear. That's a lot to handle. I would suggest keeping a journal and writing down your feelings. Take up a new hobby. I took up kick boxing after my grandfather died. It's really fun! If you want to laugh, go here, it's guaranteed to make you laugh! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zcQlz1mt1...
Just look at the bright side of things. You have a family, while some people don't. My friend was just recently taken up by a foster home after his parents were killed. Talk to a psychologist, or friends. Talking will help a lot. Things will get better, just keep holding on. =]]
i know how u feel.. me being 14 and went though/getting over deppresion, the first step is realising u have a problem which it sound like u already have, 2nd what i did is i though the razor blades and drugs away, i o.d and cut, once i though the razors away it helped me stop to thing when i was upset, i didn't stop cutting right away but soon i did, also throwing away or putting drugs in a hard to get to place helps slow down that part too... ( u didn't say exactly how u harmed urself)
then u have to find people you can trust to talk too.. To be honest i nevered seeked help, but depending on the person it might be easeir to,
Anther thing i did was i started writing poetry and stuff, when ever i was upset i'd write peoms or music or look over my old ritings or just listen to my ipod or look at some peoms online.
it takes time, trust me, i started everything at the beginning of 5th grade and now about to start highschool (9th grade) you just have to staystong, eat healther once u realise ur coming up u will want to continue fighting...
If you honestley are about to give up talk to ur docoter about medication.... you might have a medical promblem that causes you to think/do what you do.. i hope this helps thou
awh sam dont worry
everything seems sucky now but when god closes one door he opens another and soon youre life will get quite better
youre brother should be the one to worry
hes got cancer
all you should do is be there for him in this horrible time
youre dad should worry
his son is depressed and his other one has cancer
and so he has to stay busy
its just for now sam, it wont be for the rest of youre life hun
im sorry about your mum
but if she walked out on you shes a bad person and you dont need her anyways