Ex has issues with my happiness???!


Question: my ex has issues that i am happy he recently got in touch with me and i told him i am happy and married and he seemed to have a real problem because by the way he acted.he said well i hope you two last.he has done this before anytime i have something happy in my life that happens to me he acts like he wishes me bad.everytime i think he is gone for good he returns.what can i do?he hurt me in the past by being emotionally abusive i want this guy out of my life and stay gone but he wont get the message.any advice please


Answers: my ex has issues that i am happy he recently got in touch with me and i told him i am happy and married and he seemed to have a real problem because by the way he acted.he said well i hope you two last.he has done this before anytime i have something happy in my life that happens to me he acts like he wishes me bad.everytime i think he is gone for good he returns.what can i do?he hurt me in the past by being emotionally abusive i want this guy out of my life and stay gone but he wont get the message.any advice please

Im in the same boat as you only difference is im about to be married! All i did was ignore for years i got fed up with unwated phone calls so i changed all my numbers :) Now there is no way he can get intouch with me

It sounds like he's not happy with the way things are going in his own life. If he was emotionally abusive, it seems like his unhappiness has been going on before you were married. It sounds like pure jealousy over your new life and happiness. I'd tell him I don't want to continue talking to him, change my phone number, and go from there. If he still tries to contact you, you could always get a restraining order against him. You shouldn't have to worry about him or whether or not he's going to harass you. Do what's best for you, because I have a feeling he's going to keep attempting to bring you down to make himself feel better.

You should research strategies for dealing with emotional abusers as there are lots of sites on the subject. Find the ideas that sound like the best fit to your situation and use them. You really, really are not alone.

Realize that he is a pathetic and selfish guy whose own life is a curse. Your husband is probably a much stronger man than this one. It might be embarrassing to admit, but your ex was an utter waste of time as far as the real world goes. Tell him so.





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