Ladies: What's with my dad and brother?!
Question: Ladies: What's with my dad and brother?
I have generalized anxiety disorder/add/ocd, and I don't take to disrespect very well, and in public I would confront people if I felt they looked at me the wrong way or not.
Well after growing up with my dad getting moody in public, and embarrassing me as a kid, he's telling me at my age of 27 that even though I have what I have, "it's getting old"
THis frustrates the living hell out of me, because i learned when I got psychiatric testing to find what it was I had that my mother reported that she smoked when she was pregnant with me and my father has a history of depression. I don't want to have kids because I don't want them to have anxiety like me. I have a good personality and am well liked, but out in the city, I get bothered by how rude people are and I tend to react.
So my brother gets aggrevated with me, and I laughed how a girl almost held his hand by accident then he mouthed something like "Yeah, and you still said something to her".....
Do my
* 10 hours ago
Additional Details
10 hours ago
brother and father want me to be better, or are they chastising me for something that's out of my control.
For years my father has told me I got it from him but my brother's opposite, he's much more passive and while I am reserved I tend to think people are looking at me the wrong way when they're not.
Why the guilt trip? I'm taking the initiative to improve my feelings, by seeing someone and taking meds regularly to balance me out, and want to start working out, keep active....
This bothers me since i was with my brother last night and saw another thing that bothers me......everyone with a gf. While im alone.........
Answers: Ladies: What's with my dad and brother?
I have generalized anxiety disorder/add/ocd, and I don't take to disrespect very well, and in public I would confront people if I felt they looked at me the wrong way or not.
Well after growing up with my dad getting moody in public, and embarrassing me as a kid, he's telling me at my age of 27 that even though I have what I have, "it's getting old"
THis frustrates the living hell out of me, because i learned when I got psychiatric testing to find what it was I had that my mother reported that she smoked when she was pregnant with me and my father has a history of depression. I don't want to have kids because I don't want them to have anxiety like me. I have a good personality and am well liked, but out in the city, I get bothered by how rude people are and I tend to react.
So my brother gets aggrevated with me, and I laughed how a girl almost held his hand by accident then he mouthed something like "Yeah, and you still said something to her".....
Do my
* 10 hours ago
Additional Details
10 hours ago
brother and father want me to be better, or are they chastising me for something that's out of my control.
For years my father has told me I got it from him but my brother's opposite, he's much more passive and while I am reserved I tend to think people are looking at me the wrong way when they're not.
Why the guilt trip? I'm taking the initiative to improve my feelings, by seeing someone and taking meds regularly to balance me out, and want to start working out, keep active....
This bothers me since i was with my brother last night and saw another thing that bothers me......everyone with a gf. While im alone.........
hi!
I think that you should take up a hobby of journalism! I started to read your question and could not stop reading. I think u might have an hidden talent that u are not aware of.
I often found out that if u keep a journal or a daily routine of writing your feeling in a book or binder and later looking at them helps improve things. U seem to have a lot on your mind and sounds like you can def. let it out.
I always think when family is talking to u, its to help you. Not hurt or harm u in any way. Often there help can be taken the wrong way and out defenses naturally rise. I think u should just take a day off and relax. NO tv, radio, kids, family. Just serenity. One day like this every month can relax you.
TAKE IT EASY!
see a doctor.
You won't always be alone, as long as you keep trying to work on your problems. You can't have a full relationship with someone when there is so much that is left to do, you know? You want to be a complete person, with something to offer.
When you say that you "don't take disrespect well", it can be seen as being stand-offish to those who do not know you well.
Learning not to be so sensitive to your dad & brother is a good start, too. Over-reacting can be seen as hostile, and scares people off. Good luck! You are trying to work things out and that is a very positive step.
It's a family thing I think every faamily has their own problems like that! like my step dad completely dislikes my aunt and it's mainly because of their attitudes they are oposites COMPLETE OPPOSITES! but i hope everything works out for you
From what you have said, It sounds like they deal with ur illness as best they can. I think they love u very much. I think u need to stop blaming ur mom and dad for what is wrong with u. That doesnt do any good at all. Its not ur brothers fault that everyone has a girlfriend. If u have such a good personality than u won't always be alone. It really sounds like u need to see the doctor more often and try to get on some med's that help u to control ur illness better. U need to stop embarrassing ur family. Get control of what u say. u don't take to disrespect very well yet thats what u do when u say things to strangers on the street.. Think about that...I dont mean to sound cruel but I didn't like all the blaming that ur doing.
What did I write that offended u so much. What did I say except my opinion, how can you report that. I didn't call u names or make fun of you. I also know more than u think I do about ur condition and when I said u need to control what u say I guess i was right on it because look at how u attacked me!!