I never want to go to school anymore because i get depressed a lot help please?!
Question: recently my dad died,my sis moved away,and the guy i like is being an a******,and flirting with other girls infront of me even tho he was acting like he really liked me and stuff. and now i have days where i just really dont wanna go 2 school,,usaully i can but its like once or twice a month all of a sudden i just cant hold it in anymore and i just wanna cry all day and have my mommy take care of me lol,,what do i do cuz i cant sleep and i kno tommrow will be one of those days,,i feel so hopless and i considered running away just so i wouldnt have 2 go 2 school!! thats how much i really dont wanna go =(
Answers: recently my dad died,my sis moved away,and the guy i like is being an a******,and flirting with other girls infront of me even tho he was acting like he really liked me and stuff. and now i have days where i just really dont wanna go 2 school,,usaully i can but its like once or twice a month all of a sudden i just cant hold it in anymore and i just wanna cry all day and have my mommy take care of me lol,,what do i do cuz i cant sleep and i kno tommrow will be one of those days,,i feel so hopless and i considered running away just so i wouldnt have 2 go 2 school!! thats how much i really dont wanna go =(
Emily, I'm so sorry your Dad died.
I'm sorry your sis went away, and I'm sorry that a$$h0LE is being a total jerk-wad.
I hope he, oh well I can't say on here. I'll get deleted...
=)
But I hope these depressing times go away.
I want you to look at the good sides of life.
Ignoring that jerk-wad.Knowing your Dad isn't suffering anymore.Knowing your sis can easily talk to you on the phone everyday if you wish.
I hope you can forget the negatives and look at the positives of the outlooks you are looking at.
I hope you can be happy on those days when you are feeling depressed.
I hope you will someday look forward to going to school.
I want you to get some help.
It's okay all these things are occuring.
1. Losing a parent can be hard.
But to know he is not suffering on the face of earth is even better to think about ,knowing he's in heaven with God.
2. That guy, i wanna sock him in the face and I don't even know him! I mean he's an idiot. I hope he's not doing the flirting thing just to get you jealous. Because if he is then he's even more of a jerk.
3.These depressing days seem to be caused by the boy, I say completely ignore him. I hope you can get some counseling. Or talk to your Mom. Maybe even your sis over the phone. Just talk to someone who you trust.
~Good Luck Emily!~
Hope this helped!!
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Hope you feel better!
I know it's hard. Believe me, I do. It's easier to look at the bad side of things than the good. Now what would be the point of sitting in a room by yourself? That wouldn't come of any good, now, would it? I know a lot of people would miss you an awful lot. You can't stop driving just because there's a few bugs on the windshield. And without tough times, we wouldn't learn to appreciate the good times. It'll get better. I promise. It may seem like life is horrible and sad right now, but in awhile you'll look back on this and learn to appreciate the good times even more. =)
It may help to keep a journal, it sounds weird, but it really helps me. And try talking to somebody you love, that'll help alot. Stick in there. Good luck, I really wish you the best =)
I'm sorry that you're going through so many tough situations at one time. You're feelings are certainly understandable. I'd highly recommend making an appt with a therapist to talk about your feelings. It sounds like you're probably close with your mom - can you ask her if she can make an appt for you? If you're not comfortable with that, is there a school counselor you can talk to? It sounds like you're definitely suffering from depression.
Sounds like you need...what we call in the work world...a "mental health day." That's where grown adults call in sick because they want their mommies to take care of them. OK, our mommies really don't take care of us, but we need to regroup, eat soup, and watch brainless TV for a day or so to get perspective and get our courage up to go back. If you can, have one of those vague tummy aches that means you need a day off.
But with your dad's death and your sister moving away (never mind the idiocy of high school boys...that wears off), you might be able to use a little counseling. Hopefully your friendly guidance counselor or pastor/rabbi/guru can recommend someone or help you out with that.
I promise, high school's not forever; summer break is coming and you WILL survive and you WILL be okay. You're strong enough and smart enough (as evidenced by your question) to survive. You can do it. It's less time until summer break than it was to Christmas break in September. You can do this.
have you ever considered consouling? im sure it would really help you with the problems you are going through. ask your mom about it and see what she says.
Running away wont help. If it isn't school it will be something else. Ask anyone that is working now and finished school. They Will tell you, you need to finish school and they will tell you that compared to life after school, school is better. Try to focus on the things that are good about school. Almost everyone doesn't want to do what they need to do, e.g. homework, go to boring classes, get up early etc. these things will prepare you for the real world after school. Quit school and you will be doing the same stuff only sooner and at a much lower pay scale.
I'm sorry about your dad.Try to think of him in a possitive way,and how proud he is of you.He would want you to go to school and make good grades so you can have a good life.Know that he is always with you no matter what.Let him be your strength.I think this guy sounds like a jerk,so just move on and forget him,he doesn't deserve you anyway.I'm sure your sis would like to get a call from you now and then.Keep your chin up and stay away from anyone or anything that try to bring you down.Be strong.
Let me join with the others, here, in offering condolences for your loss. It seems to me as though you are suffering from grief related depression, but the others are right: there is no point in staying home; instead, visit your school counselor. Go to http://www.mind.org.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar, and enter. Call: The Grief Recovery Institute (U.S.A.) 1-800-445-4808, or Hospice (phone book). Email jo@samaritans.org Chatrooms and forums: http://www.chatmag.com/topics/health/gri... and http://talkingminds.15.forumer.com/ and http://messageboards.ivillage.com/ Other websites: http://www.griefnet.org/ and http://www.helpguide.org/ and http://www.mental-health-abc.com/ and http://www.boblivingstone.com/?q=node30 and http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk/ Understand that there are often several stages of grief.
The stages are:
Denial: The initial stage: "It can't be happening."
Anger: "Why ME? It's not fair?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my son graduate."
Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"
Acceptance: "It's going to be OK."
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