I'm a girl who is depressed and isn't sure why. Please help me out.?!
Question: Well it started when I found out that this girl I knew got a boyfriend and so I was surprised and angry even though I didn't care for the guy. Afterwards I continued to feel depressed and then my good friend told me that he likes the same girl. I don't hate the girl but I don't know whats wrong with me. So please help me!
Answers: Well it started when I found out that this girl I knew got a boyfriend and so I was surprised and angry even though I didn't care for the guy. Afterwards I continued to feel depressed and then my good friend told me that he likes the same girl. I don't hate the girl but I don't know whats wrong with me. So please help me!
You need love in your life. Stop seeing this girl and find your own destiny. And hon, you can't compare yourself with others..sometimes things just happen---doesn't mean she's better than you are. It just happened. It will come to you when you least expect it and when it does, you won't think of that girl again.
sounds like you feel left out and maybe even think you look better than the other girl so your wondering what's wrong w/ you. don't worry about it, maybe she is doing something you are not willing or shouldn't be doing, that the guys done heard about....it will be ok, hold your head up and be you
There can be many causes like candida overgrowth in your intestines, lack of certain nutrients, lack of sunlight, exercise or a combination of things including a certain way of looking at things and then something sets it off.
If you have 5 of the 9 below for over 2 weeks, it could be depression.
1. Depressed mood
2. Loss of interest in usual activities
3. Loss of appetite
4. Insomnia
5. Psychomotor retardation (slow thought or movement)
6.Loss of energy
7. Feelings of worthlessness and guilt
8. Diminished ability to think and poor concentration
9. Suicidal thought or action
See site below for natural help.
http://www.phifoundation.org/heal.html
I think you are being a little hard on yourself in this situation. The girl you like wasn't meant for you at this time in your life. How do you know it is about you and not her. Maybe she didn't even know that you liked her that much. Most guys I know are very shy when it comes to expressing feelings for a girl. They don't want to be rejected. The energy that you have left, build up your confidence by doing things you can do well. Whether its sports, music, art-. Keep busy - talk about your loss, but don't let it immobilize you. There will be a girl that is willing to be with you because she wants to not because she feels sorry for you.
I can really relate to you :]
I have recently went through a depression stage but thats just what it was, a stage or a phase and it will pass in time. The best thing to do is go out with your friends as much as possible and just have fun. Also your family are your closest friends.
I think that although you dont have feelings for these people, you just feel jealous about what they have and would like to have a boyfriend yourself.
Maybe you you wish you had some of the attention also. Or maybe you have feelings for this girl. Try writing all the feelings about this girl and read it when your done maybe you'll find something out thats bothering you..