Is it wrong to want to be uglier?!
Question: Well I'm tall and pretty and people tell me i should be a model..i'm not bragging i'm just telling the truth, but anyways i feel that i have to be some all around amazing person when I meet someone new because they expect me to be perfect in every single way, when in reality I'm not...i feel as if the real person who i am isn't good enough for who i am supposed to be based on what i look like ....is this normal? Or is there something wrong with me?
Answers: Well I'm tall and pretty and people tell me i should be a model..i'm not bragging i'm just telling the truth, but anyways i feel that i have to be some all around amazing person when I meet someone new because they expect me to be perfect in every single way, when in reality I'm not...i feel as if the real person who i am isn't good enough for who i am supposed to be based on what i look like ....is this normal? Or is there something wrong with me?
It's not wrong to want to be uglier. You're just feeling the pressure of being pretty. I feel so stuck up saying this but i've had to deal with this too. Just be yourself. People think it's cute when you make mistakes. Nobody wants to be with someone who's perfect. But then again, nobody's perfect. So just have fun and don't worry about other people
Beauty changes but who you are on the inside remains the same, you just mature as you get older. Just be happy with you are and what you look like.
normal sometimes i wish i was uglier so my boyfriend would stop thinkingthat every guy i talk to or that looks at me wants to f*ck me its really annoying hes always like but look at u do u really think they arent thinking it i hate it sometimes but it can also work to ur benefit to be hott
I don't want to sound patronising but you should really learn to embrace your beauty. A lot of people in the world wish they were nicer looking and the only way they can rectify it is surgery. If people expect you to be someone you're not they wouldn't be the kind of people I would hang around with. Try to be yourself-beauty is a gift! You don't have to be perfect! :)
ok...im tall and prettty too. like naturally pretty. it doesnt matter what people expect of you, do/ act how you want. people tell me that i should model to, when i usually just wear my golden spiral curled hair up in a bun, throw on clothes, and wear no make up. sometimes maybe a little chapstick.
anyway my point is it doesnt matter how you look. i act how i want and barely pay attention to my looks when i get stopped in the street all the time, but people dont seem to expect anything from me. they really dont care how you act to be honest.
You should be happier that people have better expectations from you. Because you are capable of meeting their expectations.
And why not to improve on what you have now.
The curse of beauty. Your need will get met one day. Your beauty will vanish.
You will become passive and increasingly isolated. Most people look from afar, you attract the wrong kind of men, not those for conversation.
I think people assume that you are not as smart as you are, not the other way around.
Well it depends because sometimes we take that seriously and we make it an obsession , for man its difficult to chat with beautiful girls but if you are cool and you treat people well that is not a problem . if you want we can chat in msn i can tell you how to improve that . my msn is madly_01 at hotmail dot com