Suggest some tablet to kill male sex desire without side effects?!
Question: Help somebody!!
I am a virgin male aged 28 years. Please can someone (preferably doctors who know about it) tell me about a tablet which kills my sex drive completely without any side effects. I only know that the testosterone male harmone is responsible for sex drive. Don't ask me why I need it please; as I am under severe psychological and mental pain. My problem being this world is too cruel (say PRACTICAL) and I am too good (say IDEALISTIC human with high standard of moral & ethical values) for people around. I have faced several failures in my love relationship and can't take it any more. With this tablet I want to kill my emotions and feel more compatible with people around. I can't love a person with whom I can't associate emotionally and that's why I am not marrying. I am not able to find TRUE LOVE in this world - so taking this step....
Hope you understand my problem.
And please you need not show any sympathy - only practical help required
LOTS of thanks in advance!
Answers: Help somebody!!
I am a virgin male aged 28 years. Please can someone (preferably doctors who know about it) tell me about a tablet which kills my sex drive completely without any side effects. I only know that the testosterone male harmone is responsible for sex drive. Don't ask me why I need it please; as I am under severe psychological and mental pain. My problem being this world is too cruel (say PRACTICAL) and I am too good (say IDEALISTIC human with high standard of moral & ethical values) for people around. I have faced several failures in my love relationship and can't take it any more. With this tablet I want to kill my emotions and feel more compatible with people around. I can't love a person with whom I can't associate emotionally and that's why I am not marrying. I am not able to find TRUE LOVE in this world - so taking this step....
Hope you understand my problem.
And please you need not show any sympathy - only practical help required
LOTS of thanks in advance!
I say you are just impatient human being. You'll be sorry if you do something like "killing your sex drive". You know how is it in life? Just as you decided something for good, there appears a chance, and you, with your final decision, can do nothing, not a bit, and you suffer because of your premature decision. Just remember, whenever you decide something that is not required by some other to be final decision, you are always wrong. This situation is a typical one that need revisions over and over.
Don't search for true love, it is not the way how it goes. BE someone's true love ( I mean, do efforts) and you'll see the effect. True love is not something to look for, it is state of mind (the character, the knowledge...). It is your response to someone's inner beauty that you woke up. Since you perceive yourself as idealistic, this would only mean - action! You have the idea(l)s, just do something with them (although I understand that it requires a certain "down to Earth" reasoning, but you will succeed).
You will nevr kill your emotions, even a chemical castration you will have the same thoughts and emotions. I can't think of any pill that will stop horemones and have no side effects, sorry. Just claim celebacy, rent some porn and join the rest of the male singles. I don't have a very active sex life, mostly masturbation, and honestly if I didn't I would go a bit crazy from the horemones.
You obviously have confused love and sex here, they are not the same thing. If you cut off your sex drive you won't affect your love, they are not connected.
As for 'true love' it's a myth people tell children in fairy tales. It does not exist. Love is hard work and compromise. You have to learn to accept yours and onother's flaws. You seem to be a bit hypercritical here. Saying that you are flawless and the world is flawed. Honestly you will never be happy until you learn the values of compromise.
Love is when you can accept the flaws of another. It's communication and really hard work. And it will never live upto fairy tale expectations. Obviously that part of you died, as it should have. You can't set goals so iron clad, you will just fall on your face, obviously. You will love again, but not until you have accepted that people have flaws.
Killing your sex drive isnt the same as killing your emotions.
Ive heard saltpeter can prevent erections and kill sex drive but I wouldnt advise its use without consulting a doctor. It may have extreme side effects that I am not aware of.
there is no drug to do that for you, the only way would be labotamy, and that is illegal
Many antidepressants kill sex drive. Check into prozac and zoloft. And as a bonus, it sounds like an antidepressant could help you in dealing with your emotional pain. Talk to your doctor and tell him that you are having a hard time, feeling depressed, etc (because you are).
Stay away from paxil effexor because they can have terrible withdraw - and I mean terrible - if you ever go off of them.
saltpeter?..this is what they reportedly used to use in the food in prison, to deaden the sex drives of inmates
I dont want to sound crule or out of line, but the only way I can think of to get your sexdrive under controll is if you lay hands on yourself
I understand that you've thought this out in very great detail, but I can't help wondering if you've come to the same conclusion that others might come to.
You're in a lot of mental pain and it is great that you've analysed your situation, the world, and love, and sex.
You say you are too good for people. I feel like that from time to time, too. I wonder where that idea is coming from? Has it been there all along? Did you have a strict or very religious (i.e. judgemental) upbringing?
From a purely logical, rational psychological perspective you could look at changing how you think. You're about to chemically castrate yourself because you have failed in love relationships and you can't take it any more. You're telling yourself you can't take it! Why not change your thinking? Think instead 'It would have been good if those relationships had worked, but they didn't, and I'm still surviving. Loss in love is not going to send me off my brain. I have coped before and I will continue to.
This approach is called cognitive behavioural therapy and I would refer you even to older books by Dr Albert Ellis because he is particularly good on love pain and he's funny to boot.
Hope this helps. Go well.
Madeleine
Consult a good homeopath.
taking lexapro will decrease your libido and will help you to have a calmness by yourself and with yourself, if you ever decide to quit taking it, it is one of the safest drugs to wean off of