Why is life filled with so much pain?!
Question: im just sitting here and wondering why life is so hard, there is so much pain to go through and i feel like whenever time has healed one pain there is a new pain that comes along. and its mostly my heart it feels like its always hurting and very rarely am i truely happy and if i begin to start feeling happy it all comes crashing down =/ idk what to do anymore..i try to keep on pushing through and smile even when inside im not smiling i just fake a smile bc i dont want ppl to kno how miserable i truely am.... can anyone help me? and does anyone feel the same way how do u cope with all the pain life puts us through?
Answers: im just sitting here and wondering why life is so hard, there is so much pain to go through and i feel like whenever time has healed one pain there is a new pain that comes along. and its mostly my heart it feels like its always hurting and very rarely am i truely happy and if i begin to start feeling happy it all comes crashing down =/ idk what to do anymore..i try to keep on pushing through and smile even when inside im not smiling i just fake a smile bc i dont want ppl to kno how miserable i truely am.... can anyone help me? and does anyone feel the same way how do u cope with all the pain life puts us through?
There really is no good answer for this. Life is not a bunch of roses. I am 32 and just lost my newborn baby. My husband and I had been trying for a baby for a little while, suffered a miscarriage and then had our little girl home for 10 days before the docs found her heart defect. She died when she was 31 days old. This was the worse thing ever.
Prior to ALL of this, I had a horrible birth father, great step-dad that died a few years ago, a brother that forgets about me when I need him and never much money.
ok, I never thought I would find someone who would love me for me and I would have a miserable lonely life. You see, I was overweight and didn't have many friends during my whole life. I worked hard and graduated high school a little early just because I was so lonely. But it didn't help. I was still lonely. So I threw myself into work and became a workaholic. That didn't help. I did find someone and we married, but I was just desperate to have anyone. We divorced. Things got good, then bad, then good, then bad....that's just life.
I fought to have weight loss surgery and got it. I found a wonderful man before my surgery who loved me fat and still loves me skinny. We had a beautiful girl that never had a chance and I can't imagine going through it with anyone else other than my husband. We bought a house we are about to lose to foreclosure. My husband was laid off from his job and is having a hard time finding another. We are filing bankruptcy and I have anxiety attacks. My younger sister (29) just lost her baby at 6 months pregnant due to a very rare syndrome.
My point is, each time I thought "This is it....it can't get any worse or better.", life takes a turn. Things get bad, but they always get better. There are people out there who have NO ONE!! They are in jail without visitors or homeless without anyone looking for them.
Please go see a doctor, get some meds to help you get through this time. I have never believed in therapy or medication until now. It is working for me and has worked for others. Please, please go see someone. Let it all out. Tell your secrets to a therapist, they can't tell your parents!!! So you can complain, cry, get mad, say who you love or hate....just get it ALL out. It really does help.
I always hated when people would tell me, "Don't worry, it will get better.", because they weren't feeling what I was feeling. But in actuality, there are people out there feeling what you are feeling or even worse and they get help. There is always someone out there in a worse condition than you are....so count your blessings and go see a therapist. Talk to a teacher, parent or some other adult that can point you in the right direction for this. Just don't give up!!!!