Why are people the way they are?!


Question: what makes people shy or nervous or happy? you might see a toddler the kid has no influence of peer pressure or society at all in that matter.. yet one 5 year old could be boucing off the walls and the other might be hiding behind their mother afraid to speak.. i mean.. what makes peoples personallity everyone talks about being yourself.. and following your heart.. but what makes you love one thing over another what makes you like this shirt over that one.. see what im saying.. i wonder about these things so much it drives me crazy i think about it all the time..


Answers: what makes people shy or nervous or happy? you might see a toddler the kid has no influence of peer pressure or society at all in that matter.. yet one 5 year old could be boucing off the walls and the other might be hiding behind their mother afraid to speak.. i mean.. what makes peoples personallity everyone talks about being yourself.. and following your heart.. but what makes you love one thing over another what makes you like this shirt over that one.. see what im saying.. i wonder about these things so much it drives me crazy i think about it all the time..

peoples characters and personalities are what define them,.... these are influenced by the surrounding environment like t.v. parents (very strong influence), and more importantly genetics also play a major role in defining how a kid is going to turn out as they grow,.....kids from childhood can only know what they learn, and that comes from absorbing and following what others do (obviously) basically ignorance is bliss as they say.

we just have to understand the typucal stereo types of personalities and characters like show offs, loud, etc. the better you can do this the more easy it gets to get along with them and understand the world from their point of view,....

hope that makes sense and helps.

Because that's just the way they are.

your asking a question that can't really be answered.

Sure everyone is different, we have our own views, our own beliefs, we even have our own stubborn qualities that make us unique.

Unless there is some scientific answer we'll never know what makes us like that shirt over that one or love that person over that person.

It just is

Its in their DNA which comes from their mother and farther, also how their brought up has an effect on how they are.

I think you are asking a question that is almost impossible to answer, not that it can't be answered but it can't be answered in one post. I think there are many factors such as fear for one that drives a person to do what he wants to do. There is something about a person's past experiences that comes to mind, for example a person may not want to go someplace or do a certain thing because he has had some past very bad experience that makes him deathly afraid to do that thing or to go that place that another person may have never had. I just given what I think are a couple short answers. I may add more or modify this message as more thoughts come to mind and clearer ideas come. I am just speaking from my past experience.





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