Im haveing thoughts of necrophilia. Help!?!?!
Question: My guess is that like most guys im just horney but this is really nasty. I dont ever want to hurt anyone so is there like an anonymas (crappy spelling i know) website where i could go for help. please please please help me, i was watching a thing on Jeffrey Dohmer and he was doing and interview and he said he had those thoughts as a kid and didnt let them out. I really dont want to be a serial killer so can anyone help me. thanks
Answers: My guess is that like most guys im just horney but this is really nasty. I dont ever want to hurt anyone so is there like an anonymas (crappy spelling i know) website where i could go for help. please please please help me, i was watching a thing on Jeffrey Dohmer and he was doing and interview and he said he had those thoughts as a kid and didnt let them out. I really dont want to be a serial killer so can anyone help me. thanks
You need to do some soul searching. Ask yourself who you think you are and what you want out of life. You already said you dont want to be a serial killer and I commend you for that... so you already no what you DONT want... so figure out what you DO want. I say this because, you never know until you think... just who you are. Most shrinks would place you on meds or admit you and call it a day. Do you feel that you can beat all that? Or do you feel that being on meds or being admitted would really help you? People go threw phases in there life and its not strange if you want something a little different in the bedroom. The fact that you know you are different, like different things and get turned on by different things dont make you bad it just makes you unique. The fact that you admit you are different is a BIG plus... it means you know a little bit about who you are. If you had those thoughts and thought nothing of them... meaning thought that they were normal then I would think my life threw a little harder. You are who you are and no one can change that. Hell, I have done and wanted to do some pretty strange things in the bedroom myself. It dont mean I am a mass murder and it dont mean that I am a nut... then again it dont mean that I am NOT a nut either LOL... i am just saying, you admit that you are different. And although that is REALLY different I am not going to judge you. The time to worry is when you have dreams and thoughts about bad ways to make this a reality. If you have a partner that you do things with, tell her your thoughts and see if she comes up with any scenarios on how to help you express yourself a little deeper in the bedroom. Try it a few times and chances are your urge will either subside or will get more detailed, graphic, and vivid in your mind. If it DOES get worse then its time to call around for a group that specializes in sex sexaholics. There is nothing wrong with sex nor is there anything wrong with new ideas and fantasys... but there has to be a line drawn and YOU have to be the one to draw it and say; "Ok Mind... thats ENOUGH!"
Please seek the help of a professional couselor. People on this site really aren't qualified to help you. Good luck.
Why not try getting an escort to "play dead" and express your fantasy that way? If that proves insufficient for you, it's time to seek therapy.
well,if ur goth,time to quit!get professional help.talk it over with a counselor -they are free at church,school.
well, your unibomber avitar and reaper name arent helping any
just get in your mind that this dark stuff is bad for you and get rid of all of it
and if you cant, get help
DONT let anyone play dead for you. thatd only feed the desire.
I personally don't have a problem with this.
If you were a rapist or a pedophile, it would be a problem because there is a definite victim here. But if you're banging a corpse, are you really hurting anyone?
Access to corpses is an issue though, I wouldn't seek employment at a mortuary or a nursing home - the temptation would just be too much for you.
Also, there's a question of hygiene. If the corpse is freshly dead then its not an issue but if you're going after a week old, rotting carcass you might encounter some nasty bacteria.
I'm always glad I can help.
i definitely dont agree with the last answer. i suggest you seek professional help without parents knowing. start something completely different to let them realize you need therapy since that is a rahter touchy subject. pretend you depressed and go get some meds kid. thats not normal. no offense but thta does need some professional help...
I don't think there's anything wrong with you! It's called a "fetish." They're normal to fantasize about and pretend as much as you want. Find a dating site where people are into goth and vampirism and I'm sure you'll meet a few who are into necrophilia fantasies. Be careful because you might actually run into people who ARE crazy who might try to hurt you. It won't hurt to just talk to them to share your feelings and ideas. Don't meet Internet people in person because it's very dangerous.
Give it a few years. You sound like you're still young and many people don't talk about their strange fetishes at that age. When you get into college or older, people open-up and become more adventurous. You'll find a girl willing to play dead.
Remember: You're not crazy for having fantasies about strange things. It's only a problem when you can't control yourself from breaking the law. That's when you'll need help. If it gets to that, go straight to the hospital and speak to a doctor. They will set you up with counselling. Just relax for now.
When you say necrophilia, a person really have these "strong urge feelings" to have sex with dead people no matter what.
And in your case, i guess it was just a fantasy because you can still hold back what you feel "as of now". But of course, you need a psychotherapist to help you out, a family member to talk to about your problem and need some activities to diverse your thinking.
A patient with these type of sexual deviations was usually given with a drugs called estrogen for men and testosterone for women. Because it may help you lower or decreased your libido. Asked your doctor or therapist about these meds.
That is not normal find a way to control it and if you cant you need to keep yourself away from people