How do i know?!
Question: ok, this is a personal problem, but i want to make sure before i over react. I think my husband has p.e. but im not sure. see no man has ever really lasted that long, so i could be 2 blame. but it never fails...just when i start to get into it...he is done. like 3 minutes done, and if i move its not even that. so being this happened to me alot with the other 2 relationships before him am i responsible or could he have p.e.? and how could i ask him to get it checked out by a dr without crushing his ego?
Answers: ok, this is a personal problem, but i want to make sure before i over react. I think my husband has p.e. but im not sure. see no man has ever really lasted that long, so i could be 2 blame. but it never fails...just when i start to get into it...he is done. like 3 minutes done, and if i move its not even that. so being this happened to me alot with the other 2 relationships before him am i responsible or could he have p.e.? and how could i ask him to get it checked out by a dr without crushing his ego?
First of all, you should be able to openly talk to your husband about sex. Since it takes women a lot longer then men to be satisfied I would suggest that you tell him that you need a lot of foreplay before the actual intercourse takes place.
Dont ask to get it checked out. Its a mental prob not physical no matter what docs say. there are a few things u cn try.
ask him to think about football while doing it. (REELI DUS HELP, espesh if you dont like football!)
Try the stop and go method
Try the performa durex contreception
Yank on his nuts! lol (not advisable!)
Just make him comfortable, its not your fault hes just scared of doing it in the first place. (football idea works best! lol)