Will it feel good if I move into an apartment of my own ?!


Question: I am a recent run away from my home because of my parents and brother's abusive ways . I drove from New York on the 29th of february and I been living under my uncle's shelter for past 3 weeks. Things are good since my uncle's family took me in and gives me food and a place to sleep.

I went through depression ,anxiety and panic attacks when I was living back in my new york apartment with my family . They used to blame me for everything in that house , my brother used to curse at me every single day he got a chance , emotionally blackmailed me and my mom used to complain every day she came home from work for not finding a job , when I knew that if i found a job I would be losing a part of me by listening to her . Few months ago on September my dad chased me around with a knife in one of his violent outbursts.


Answers: I am a recent run away from my home because of my parents and brother's abusive ways . I drove from New York on the 29th of february and I been living under my uncle's shelter for past 3 weeks. Things are good since my uncle's family took me in and gives me food and a place to sleep.

I went through depression ,anxiety and panic attacks when I was living back in my new york apartment with my family . They used to blame me for everything in that house , my brother used to curse at me every single day he got a chance , emotionally blackmailed me and my mom used to complain every day she came home from work for not finding a job , when I knew that if i found a job I would be losing a part of me by listening to her . Few months ago on September my dad chased me around with a knife in one of his violent outbursts.

You have not been there long under your uncle's shelter and I honestly would not consider moving just yet. I mean you honestly just got out of a bad situation. Personal experience tells me you just need a chance to accept the boundaries life has thrown at you. Though there are pros and cons to living by yourself. Pros you could feel like it is your home. You could feel like you were your own. I think though the cons of this would be feeling alone. If you were once feeling depressed and such you need to get through what you were experincing. So if I were you I would give you some time. I would need to go through the emotions. Get through it with your new invironment and tell them what happened while you were there. When you get the chance to face your fears and get through the trama then go for it get your own apartment. Get a job and save up an emergency fund and save for an apartment. Find out what apartments are wanting these days. Then find your balance and get yourself an apartment. If anything find you a trusting friend that is going through the emotions just like you and get to know her/him and talk to her/him everyday. Make sure you go out and have fun and stuff because there is a time to have fun and a time to talk things through. Good luck to you.

Get a job, pay something to your Uncle for living there, keep your spending under control and save for an apartment. No alochol or other drugs. Get an apartment and then get education. Time to stand on your own two feet.

cookie, i think it will be great for you to move into an apartment of your own, where you can create your own peaceful environment and you dont have to live in fear. you will feel independant, which will give you more confident. you are an adult and if you are able to support yourself then great stuff. you might have a panic or depression attack from time to time, but because you are feeling more positive about yourself and peaceful, you might be able to handle it better.we all have bad days, good days, depressed days, and happy days, just take each beautiful day at a time, and enjoy being king and master of your own life....i wish you well!!!!

Yes, get a place of your own, find a good job you like, and find a mate. Your dad chased you with a knife? wow i would lock his a@@ up in jail and get out of there quicker than you can say quick if I were you.

First since you are 25 your family has no control. Second if your uncle makes you move, find a shelter/residence for abused women and move there just as soon as you can. They will help with everything: job, living situation, depression, family problems. I'm sorry for your troubles but you have the sense to get out and to ask for help, which is huge. Shelters exist everywhere and they have hot line numbers. Very good luck to you. You will be fine and be proud of yourself.

yes,

becouse you proved them wrong.
you have a life of your own and noo i mean on one can tell you what to do. you make the rules not them. you live the way the way you wont to live i know how you feel becouse i went through the same things but i did not run away i took it and went on in life.i wish i was as strong as you to leave.
i env you. but yea it will feel good to leave .
make sure to make it thought





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