Is my life worth living?!


Question: I am slighty mentally retarded. therefore I lost my ex-girlfriend (from the time when I was very clever) and I have lost my job. In fact, almost all girls avoid me because my misery is a public joke where I live. I am not able to find a job and even if I find such job probably I would not be able to work it well. For same reason my merits as Buddhist are not recognised and I am not respected as promised in the Lotus Sutra. People pretend as polite with me but I am subject to jokes and despise. I do not have friends I cannot find girl for sex. I am tired of my life. From time to time I cry, i am often sad and tired and my life passes invain. All my dreams are gone and I am left alone in my room like some old device that do not function well.
I cannot repair myself and everybody else want something sane, new and exciting. what should I do?


Answers: I am slighty mentally retarded. therefore I lost my ex-girlfriend (from the time when I was very clever) and I have lost my job. In fact, almost all girls avoid me because my misery is a public joke where I live. I am not able to find a job and even if I find such job probably I would not be able to work it well. For same reason my merits as Buddhist are not recognised and I am not respected as promised in the Lotus Sutra. People pretend as polite with me but I am subject to jokes and despise. I do not have friends I cannot find girl for sex. I am tired of my life. From time to time I cry, i am often sad and tired and my life passes invain. All my dreams are gone and I am left alone in my room like some old device that do not function well.
I cannot repair myself and everybody else want something sane, new and exciting. what should I do?

my dear, i am so sorry for your plight. i understand that something caused your "problem" perhaps an accident or an illness, bu the fact that you lost your girlfriend when you stopped being "very clever" is a good thing, because if she couldnt stick by you through your bad time or trouble, then she is not worth having and you really havent lost much. i feel sad that your sadness or misery could make others laugh and joke. Does this not show you that those people who joke at you have the problem ....the reason they joke at you, is because it takes their minds off their sad lives perhaps.... maybe you cant find a job, because you have already made your mind up you wont work it well. you have written a perfectly normal letter, so i think you would be able to do certain jobs very well...have faith in yourself....concentrate on your good points and work on those....Dont worry about sex now, sweetie, that will all come in good time with a good girl who will love you for who you are. maybe you cannot change certain things about yourself, but you have so much to live for as this life and world has so many beautiful things to offer...enjoy this amazing life, even the little things in life . People can always be cruel....that is their problem....try and be strong in yourself and show them, that you are confident and strong even if you do have a problem.....create new dreams and work on them one step at a time... you say you are like some old device that dont function well....honey we all have some things in our life that dont function well....i hope for you to take your old device, polish it up and let it funtion as well as it can ......my heart goes out to you and i wish you well!!!!

Write a book>

I have seen some people with no mental issues write worse than you. Sounds like a good story!

I have mental illness and the best thing I have found is to establish a relationship with you. If you get real comfortable with who you are you will attract others to you. Life is worth living.

get up off your ar--e go outside and see all of G-ds wonderfull creations, you do not sound retarded to me and you can SPELL which is a lot more than some of the morons that write in to Yahoo.

that's where God steps in. When you don't feel like there is any other answer, the only answer is to Pray! Just start praying and be honest with God. Say whatever is on your mind because even when you feel like the world has rejected you, God never will.

stop thinking of yourself as slightly retarded! u sure dont seem retarded to me! i think you need to sztop worrying about girls, one will come when the time is right (yeah i kno it sucks when u have to wait) but think maybe u statr dating some girl and u miss the chance to be with the girl of your dreams. also dont think girls are only there for sex. gilrs love to help ppl out and make them feel better. u could use that. but right now to get ur ideals of urself up go find a job. who cares what it is. u could work at mcdonalds fro christs sake! just get a job and be proud of it. dont go there thinking that u are awful and cant do nething. who cares what others say, it has no meaning until ou start to believe what thay have to say! N if u believe them than change what you hate about yourslef! dont say oh i cant do that im sucky im aweful im nothing, thats just the stupid way of thinkin! now get yourself together! you#ve gotten this far in life and you can keep going! if everyone around u thinks of you a certain way change it! get some new clothes or a haircut, do something physical that will start the process of the new and imporved you. start thinkin of urself more positively and look at what you do and be proud. If u feel sad go do something that will make you happy even if u dont want to. go on a bike ride or swim. working out will cause endorphines and will make u automatically feel better plus if u have a nice body u will feel better and get that female attention! you can do this! u just have to try!
if nothing works go to the doctor and get medicine because i think ur depressed or go to a therapist n talk with them. it will make you feel better!

GOOD LUCK!
LIVE, LAUGH, AND LOVE!!!

yes, your life IS worth living! I am very sorry to read about your situation. it seems that you once were accepted but now you are not. If you are " a public joke" in your area, try to get in touch with some family that you could stay with. getting away for awhile won't mend your heart though. you are Buddhist? well obviously Budda is no where to be found to help in your time of dispair. try Jesus. He will NEVER leave you, nor forsake you. He died so you can live, and He lives so we can have life to the fullest! (john 10:10) pick up a Bible and open to Psalms. in chapter 139 you can find hope and comfort in His arms. you are very special to God! and I am praying for your life and hope you see you can find strength in God.

Never give up my friend...as cliched as that may sound I have been through some dark times that I thought would be the death of me but, as people we endure. As for people and what they think...It was and still is one of life's hardest lessons for me to realize that it just doesn't matter. If you live in one of those small town type settings it's even harder but, don't run away from them just don't let them get to you. Believe it or not once you learn to block the nay sayers out you will begin to build confidence and from what I hear nothing is more attractive to a woman and your religious beliefs are just that "Yours". No matter what have faith in what ever you believe. Life is short enough as it is try not to waste a minute of it on ignorant people. find something positive that you enjoy and let the small stuff come to you. I found you cannot make everyone happy but, you can be happy no matter what others feel. take care of #1 (that's you BTW) and don't get hung up on the bad.
You have my best wishes.

you should join a group you can find them online do a google search. you are special to all you interact with and now you have with me so i would be very upset to see you give up the best gift there is LIFE. move to a warm climate make burgers at mcdonalds pick up cans on the beach. listen to music. music sooths and guides you through lifes important decisions. I like Jimmy Buffet feel good music he takes me to the places i cant physically get to. I read magizines theygive me new dreams of boats and beaches . I believe in god a loving and caring and forgiveful god. as far as women for sex. most woman are headaches we can do without anyway. if you want to have sex bad enough travel to places girls will do you but, dont live for sex. GET UP NOW pack your things and leave. whats happens in your life is up to you.
GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS
PHIL B

u dont sound retarded like me u are depressed yes life is worth living

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