Should i really have to go through this?? 10 points with the best help!? im real!
Question: Im only 16 and I'm super depressed..and i have asked this question before but i need to re-state it in a different more clear way and need to add more.
Okay so the reasons why I'm depressed and really don't understand my life anymore is because.
- Lost my boyfriend in a horrible car accident
- 1 Sister moved across the world
- Stood up to my "friends" and they still won't talk to me
- Told my twin i needed time apart..no longer talk anymore
- Bullied in a way
- My friend lost her battle a couple months ago with a disease and she was more like a sister than any of my friends
- I always seem to hang out with the wrong groups
i know theres alot of problems and ive gone to therapists and couselors and nothing has helped.
should i give up?
any help at all if so it is greatly appreciated!
Thanks to anyone and everyone!
Take care.
Answers: Im only 16 and I'm super depressed..and i have asked this question before but i need to re-state it in a different more clear way and need to add more.
Okay so the reasons why I'm depressed and really don't understand my life anymore is because.
- Lost my boyfriend in a horrible car accident
- 1 Sister moved across the world
- Stood up to my "friends" and they still won't talk to me
- Told my twin i needed time apart..no longer talk anymore
- Bullied in a way
- My friend lost her battle a couple months ago with a disease and she was more like a sister than any of my friends
- I always seem to hang out with the wrong groups
i know theres alot of problems and ive gone to therapists and couselors and nothing has helped.
should i give up?
any help at all if so it is greatly appreciated!
Thanks to anyone and everyone!
Take care.
Woow your only 16 & it seems like your carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. i think you should deal with your "battles" one step at a time. your boyfriend. thats horrible & even though i'm sure you wish your could just get over it & forget. it won't be that easy. but you seem like a strong girl. & you just need to accept it happened & find a way to set it free. your boyfriend i'm sure wouldn't want you to be sad this way. & even though you'll keep him in your heart in a special place you have to open your heart to other people. as for your friends. just let them come around. try talking to them. explaining whatever the situation is. if they care about you they will come around. & realize that your going through a tough time right now. as for your friend i'm very sorry i know how that feels. & it's hard but you have to move on in life & know that she's happy & better now. (cliche but it's true) as for your sister around the world just try not to lose touch. family is family no matter what. call her & email & stuff. keep the connection solid :]
as for your twin. clearly something is bothering you about being with her. maybe you wanna step out of her shadow find your own self. & not oh look "the twins" or something but whatever the situation may be your sisters & you need to communicate with her. & make sure that she understands whats going on & doesn't start resenting you for losing communication or anything. as for the bullying. whatever way that may be you have to stand up for yourself.if you need to get help then get it. so many things are going crazy in your keep things at least kind of controlled. as for hanging out with the wrong people. try & think of the people you hang out with. if they seem like people you just know in your heart you shouldnt be around then slowly start moving away from it. because you can't have people in your life who just shouldn't be there & who don't help. & no girl don't give up. don't even think about it. as hard as things may seem. don't give up. because it takes strength to not give up in a bad situation. & you seem like a strong girl. to be dealing with these things. don't give up for yourself, for your family & for your friends who will hopefully come around.
Good luck<3
if you ever need more advice i'm always open for it :]
Your only 16, you have the whole world yet to explore as well as figure out what you want to do with your life. Ask yourself, should you give up? Personally, I wouldn't. You are worth something, don't forget that. I understand what you are going through. In the long run, you will come out so far ahead of people and stronger too...
Wow, you've been through a lot lately at such a young age. I think your feelings are completely normal. Just be patient with yourself...eventually you will heal. It might take some time given the magnitude of these situations though. I suggest that you continue therapy....sometimes it takes awhile to feel like it's working. Don't close yourself off it you can help it. I have a feeling that with these experiences at such a young age, you will mature faster than most....understand a lot more than most...and eventually have a lot of wisdom to share with the world. Just hang in there!!!
I know you are only 16 and u have been through so much at your age that no one close to your age has gone through. please don't take your own life. I was once 16 I wanted to give up on everything. but something kept me going. I am now 49 years old and life just fly by. please get some help you see the people who are sick are fighting fpr there lifes and her you 16 so full of life. we all have problems please pray to god to lead u back. and please get the strength to live. like the song say ooh child things are going to get a little easier. they will we a go through some black days in our lifes but u know what you are going to bwe stronger and better then everyone.
In addition to my previous answer, I can only add that bullying is addressed in section 37, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris Contact your twin to say you are seeking help with your problems, and hope to be better soon, and will make contact again, later. Find better friends. Try classes in yoga, Tai Chi, gym, Pilates, aerobics, meditation, self defence; even art, ceramics, or creative writing, etc., and approach people there with sensible questions, to find out what they're like. Give someone else the points: they will appreciate them, more.
Go to a psychiatrist that treats adolescents. A prescription of the right antidepressant can make all the difference in the world. I promise.
wow thats alot but ur still young and the goodnews is that having survived all that will make u stronger medications are very helpful for depression no u should never give up
I have a riddle for you. How do you eat an elephant?
One bite at a time. Close your eyes, take a couple deep breaths, and just deal with one thing at a time.