How do i get over being jealous 24/7?!
Question: I am jealous every single day of my life. i hate it so much. one second i wil be in the best mood ever but then ill see an exremely pretty girl and feel soo insecure and jealous. I always compare myself to other people and i think thats my problem. Like guys like me and that makes me happy but then i think about if i go out with a guy, but then a really pretty girl likes them they will leave me for another girl which gives me big trust issues, and big insecureites. i will be at the mall and a girl will pass me whos really pretty and ill be depresses the whole rest of the day. pelease help meee!
Answers: I am jealous every single day of my life. i hate it so much. one second i wil be in the best mood ever but then ill see an exremely pretty girl and feel soo insecure and jealous. I always compare myself to other people and i think thats my problem. Like guys like me and that makes me happy but then i think about if i go out with a guy, but then a really pretty girl likes them they will leave me for another girl which gives me big trust issues, and big insecureites. i will be at the mall and a girl will pass me whos really pretty and ill be depresses the whole rest of the day. pelease help meee!
you have been compared to other females in the past and were told that you came up short in the "who is better" department -
sorry but you have to see a counselor who can dis-abuse you of the theory that you are not as good as the next person - as this mindset will hold you back in a marriage, a job, and any competition you have to put yourself in to survive this life
all u have to do is just say is ''**** that pretty girl cause i noe that im better then her in each and everyway'' or go to a lesbian bar and have a bunch of lesbian tell u that ur hot and try to hit on u or a bisexual girl just like me tell u that ur hot an then go and find a guy together
I have days like that. If it's a one off thing i try to spend the day in bed sulking then start a fresh the next day. I also find that to feel great about me I need to do something for someone else. Whether it's make my boyfriend dinner, take my grand ma shopping or asking a work college how their day is. Taking an interest in other people instantly makes you more attractive. If these boys are easily distracted by long legs of perfect hair then do you really care? Surely you have fabulous qualities that aren't based on looks. If being perfect looking was the only way to land the man of your dream i would still be single. If you feel like this all the time you need to find someone to speak to about it.