16, and i feel like i'm alone..?!


Question: Having a little trouble at the moment, well i guess i always have had been having trouble with everything.
I guess it starts with where i live, its a country town with not much to do and a small population. I'm not all that interested in playing sport or anything like that, so i pretty much stay at home most of the time, which is ok at times. I'd go out if one of my friends asked me to hang out with them, but that rarely happens. I'd try get a job but i don't have much self confidence. At school I'm not very popular like others but i still have friends but mostly only see them at school (holidays at the moment).
Then theres a girl that i like which i guess would be my best friend, which is pretty sad because i only mostly see her at school. I've told her that i liked her in the past (she likes us just as friends) but not so long ago i told her that i was finally over it (which i wasn't) so i can't really tell her i like her (again) which wouldn't really gain anything anyway..


Answers: Having a little trouble at the moment, well i guess i always have had been having trouble with everything.
I guess it starts with where i live, its a country town with not much to do and a small population. I'm not all that interested in playing sport or anything like that, so i pretty much stay at home most of the time, which is ok at times. I'd go out if one of my friends asked me to hang out with them, but that rarely happens. I'd try get a job but i don't have much self confidence. At school I'm not very popular like others but i still have friends but mostly only see them at school (holidays at the moment).
Then theres a girl that i like which i guess would be my best friend, which is pretty sad because i only mostly see her at school. I've told her that i liked her in the past (she likes us just as friends) but not so long ago i told her that i was finally over it (which i wasn't) so i can't really tell her i like her (again) which wouldn't really gain anything anyway..

i suppose we all have the same issue...but for guys one special girl can change everything...my adivce is that you strongly stick to her and it seem as if u guys are very close. its to bad she has a bf ...just be patient...and when the time comes...holding her in ur arms knowing that she is urs will feel even more special

just be patient, if she's not attracted to him maybe she could one day be attracted to someone else... ;)

if not, keep an eye out for someone who appreciates an awesome guy like you. =]

forget her if you can and focus in youre study if you cant you keep youre self wondering about and thinking about her. Youre life would be a mess distracted by youre feeling and youre dreams as long youre future will be destroyed. cut youre feelings now when it is early.

We all feel like this at some time in our lives...even the "popular" kids. You situation feels worse because you feel sort of isolated where you live.

This girl sounds like she really likes you as her friend right now. If she starts to feel that you want too much more, she might pull away altogether. You don't want that. Good friends are hard to find. Keep you eyes and options open. You never know, one day you may find another girl and this girl can be a friend you talk to about it. She may even decide she likes you one day, but if so, let her make the first move.

Do you plan to go to college? You could totally look forward to moving away in a couple of years for college and get a fresh start. You sound like a great person. Good luck.

hai,
nobody is alone in this world. God is there to protect and guide us. Only thing is that you have to get connected. visit a temple of your house god or any and pray/ just sit in the temple for half an hour every day at a fixed time and see how u feel. u will enjoy life.

My suggestions: start with what you like to do--hobbies, interests. They're good for entertainment. Get out of the house even if it's just to walk for change of scenery. Though you live in the country is there anything fairly close by that you can do? Is there public transportation nearby that can take you to a city so you can do things you like? It's in your best interest to build confidence, which can really take you a long way in life. Work on making friends. Look for a job doing something you're good at or that interests you. The best place to start, again, is with your talents, hobbies, and interests. As you build confidence you might become more attractive to the female population. Either way, just be yourself. As you discover who you are confidence should start coming along. Maybe I'm just weird, but finding out my personality type helped me start figuring out who I am and what I can do with my life. Evaluate your life. Does there seem to be a theme that might reveal who you are or what might be the best path for you?

yea im goin to agree wit brickcity03. so i hope everything works out wit you to.





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