I am 20 years old woman and I don't have any friends?!


Question: I used to hang out with a group of girls after being around them for a while I realized that they were bringing me down. All they do is gossip about other people behind their backs and act all nice them when they see them face to face. What kind of **** is that. I don't know. I think they have the whole process reversed. Well anyway, it's messing with my mind because I don't like to judge people for no reason unless you do something to me.
So I'm alone now. It doesn't bother me so much except that I get bored and want to go out and do something fun. I don't really like the people at my school because I felt rejected by most because I have a different personality. I think differently, I don't follow the norm. Blah Blah Blah. So my question is how do I meet new people? I'm afraid I might do something stupid. I also have severe depression (for 9 years now). I'm afraid I'd kill myself over boredom. I know that's even worst than killing yourself because life sucks. Help plz thanx


Answers: I used to hang out with a group of girls after being around them for a while I realized that they were bringing me down. All they do is gossip about other people behind their backs and act all nice them when they see them face to face. What kind of **** is that. I don't know. I think they have the whole process reversed. Well anyway, it's messing with my mind because I don't like to judge people for no reason unless you do something to me.
So I'm alone now. It doesn't bother me so much except that I get bored and want to go out and do something fun. I don't really like the people at my school because I felt rejected by most because I have a different personality. I think differently, I don't follow the norm. Blah Blah Blah. So my question is how do I meet new people? I'm afraid I might do something stupid. I also have severe depression (for 9 years now). I'm afraid I'd kill myself over boredom. I know that's even worst than killing yourself because life sucks. Help plz thanx

I know exactly how you feel..I didnt really have any friend throughout all of high school and in my first year of college, I still dont have any friend excepy my bf. If you can handle it and like being a loner than I would suggest leaving it that way. If your lonely than you should try to meet new people either in ur school or outside of school like at a club or something

nad yet ur tops for singles and dating?
well, maybe try going out once in a while, local hot spots and places, and meet up with ppl and get to know them. new friends are easy enough to make as long as u want to.

Join a group that helps less fortunate people and get your mind out of "me" mode. See what good you can do and it shoudl lift your spirits as you do it. Pax.

Maybe you should just try talking. You say you're in school, right? If you have a question on something school-related, try asking someone near you that you believe isn't going to be judgemental on you. Maybe if you keep that up those questions would become small, personal conversations, and those conversations may get bigger and bigger until it may turn into a friendship. I'm sure not all people at your school is like that though, rejectful. There's always someone who wants to be your friend =]

ok they dont reject you!they jsut dont know u all that well!! Go up 2 one of those people and Be yourself!you will have friendz be fore u know it!i be myself and people love me !By the try myspace search people from your scool and gget to know them online thats much easier 4 me probably u 2!

I agree with Goethe.

Well, this might sound a little cheesy but speed dating a good idea, if you work, get a little sociable at work and see if you can join like yoga club or something that interests you





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