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Question: im 5 foot 4 inches
i weigh..130
and im 15
is there something wrong with me??!?!?!?!?
i dont know if its with my self esteem or something.
but i have lost interest in eating.
i cant sleep through the night and i keep having that stupid dream where i feel like im falling and in the last second i wake up?!?!
i havent talked to my friends in a while.....
i used to be a cutter???
is that affecting me?!?!?
and ive been feeling like vomiting all day for the past month.
what the hell is wrong with with me!!!!!!!!
am i unhealthy?!?!?
please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*and please no comments on how much i should stop cutting cuz i did already!!!!*
Answers: im 5 foot 4 inches
i weigh..130
and im 15
is there something wrong with me??!?!?!?!?
i dont know if its with my self esteem or something.
but i have lost interest in eating.
i cant sleep through the night and i keep having that stupid dream where i feel like im falling and in the last second i wake up?!?!
i havent talked to my friends in a while.....
i used to be a cutter???
is that affecting me?!?!?
and ive been feeling like vomiting all day for the past month.
what the hell is wrong with with me!!!!!!!!
am i unhealthy?!?!?
please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*and please no comments on how much i should stop cutting cuz i did already!!!!*
There is nothing wrong with you physically. But depression can be a serious thing.
You say you feel like you changed and are feeling horrible this month...but if you were a cutter before it sounds like you've always been upset about something.
Did something happen in your past? Something with a family member?
If you are concerned about other peoples thoughts of you...well all I can say is F them... Who cares what anyone thinks about you! As far as physical appearance you have a normal height and weight for a girl your age, and in your picture you look like a very cute girl. So that shouldn't be a concern.
However these days you see all these TV ads and all where women are stick figured...don't concern yourself with that trash either. I myself wouldnt want some twig girl that wears 500 pounds of makeup...and a lot of people feel the same as I do. So forget what Hollywood wants you to be like. (and Im just tossing out ideas here I have no clue what is upseting you yet.)
Honestly I haven't sleep well lately either, but I do eat like a pig! Haha! I think mine is due to stress at work....
So step one here is identifying what is upsetting you! :) What is on your mind or in the back of your mind most of the time?
If you dont want to reply on here feel free to send an Email to me, i'm always available.
-Matthew
there is nothin wrong with you, but if your really worried tell your parents and friends, then go to the doctors, you should be fine!
You need some meditation to explore your inner workings. Could just be "growing pains" but maybe you're unhappy with life and need a change.
see a doctor lol
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/bmi-cal...
No you are at a good weight for your height. You have nothing to worry about. Try seeing a counselor at your school and tell them your problems.
Is there something you're stressed about?
you are not wierd but go to your doctor they always help
Nothing wrong with you. Life is a nightmare for almost everyone, only some are better at pretending than others. Just be kind to yourself, what would you tell a friend in your situation?
Could you be pregnant?
Trust - Love - Confidence - Forgiveness - All these God has for you. Jesus died to give you these. Cast all your cares upon Him for He cares for you.
By the way - I hope not in your case and age but it could be pregnancy - sometimes called morning sickness.
feel like vomiting? guess you should go see a doctor for that.
hun you shouldn't of said you used to be a cutter cause now i think your actually going into a depression with yourself..its a good thing to hear u stopped cutting cause i would of gave you a lecture.anyway,you need to seek a psyhciatrist and a counselor so you can put what made you a cutter in the past..cause that never goes away!! and your dream about falling is where you are falling into the past and what's happened to you that made you do what you did or is doing now..your so young and from your avatar your a beautiful young lady,take care of yourself and make something of your life,i wish i did...!!!!
take care of yourself!!! no one else can,but you!!!
I don't think anything's wrong with you... Well, whether you are interested in eating or not, you should just eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. After all, you don't need to be interested in eating to eat. It's unhealthy if you don't eat. You can't sleep through the night? Maybe drink something warm before you go to sleep or sleep in a warm bed (if you have an electric blanket or maybe even a heating pad). I get sleepy after I take a shower so maybe that might help you. The stupid dream? I've had those several times... Eventually it'll go away but maybe you should find something that interests you (like a book, Internet, TV, etc) to keep your mind off of it... If you're not talking to your friends, it's alright. I don't really talk either; I prefer to listen. You could try to talk to your friends; maybe hang out on the weekends or something? I hope this helps... :) And the vomiting thing... You could get a check-up with a pediatrician (b/c they're awesome and I went for a check-up recently too cuz I was sick) and they can tell you if something's wrong with you. :) Hope you get better! :)
no there is nothing wrong with you. my daughter went through the same types of things at just about your age and cut also. believe it or not millions of kids go through this. i call it teen aged angst. its when you feel overwhelmed with the world and the problems involved in just being a teenager. we got our daughter help and she is now out of college and has a good job. it may not feel like it now but that is maybe the toughest years you will deal with. tell your parents. you may not think so but they will help. if you go to themand they really wont help (which i doubt) see your school counsellor , they can give you help and give you phone numbers to call . you can work through this
Go and see your doctor or talk to your mum or a close adult in your life... Dont ever be scared to open up and tell the people who love you how you feel... They can help the best...
You are a pretty girl and very smart. Dreams about falling are generally translated into feeling trapped and wanting to be free and escape but afraid. You may have some other illness so please talk to your parents and see a doctor. There may be something physical that has no relation to a mental state of mind. When you are physically ill you do not feel like doing anything that is only natural. So do not waite because something small can turn into something more serious.
go and talk to your GP or someone close you can trust, please dont cut yourself you look so pretty in your photo
Fifteen is often the most difficult year for girls to go through.
Right now is a good time to go to your Dr. to explain your symptoms and ask your questions. The Dr is really the only one who can diagnose your issues
If the Dr suggests you see a Counselor, I hope you do follow-through with it.
If the Dr. prescribes hormones, you may be surprised at how much better you can feel.
Its a sign of depression, over time you will over achieve this ordeal of stress and if your strong you will find ways to deal with all of your stress. I have gone some of the paths as you have, push through your barriers and no one in the world can help you. Only you can help yourself, I wish the best of luck to you and hope you find a way to deal with your problems.
Take care
I had dreams of falling when I was your age. It was a result of confusion and the very negative influencing people I was hanging out with. I started praying and reading the bible. And I left the negative people in the past. After that, I felt settled.
I also make sure I have a good diet, drink plenty of water, and
exercise daily. Thats maybe what you needing. Womens bodies need certain nutrients too, and you maybe lacking them. You need to go to your Dr. and tell him whats going on so that he can rule out medical problems. Also, don't hold your problems in, let it out. By talking it out, journaling/writing it down on paper or exercising. God Bless!