Im getting teased...?!
Question: Okay there is about five girls at school who pick (VERBAL) fights with me I ignore them and It is becoming a constant thing I tell them to get lost or go away all the time and now they are just teasing me more saying I dont have any come backs
and I usualy end up in tears
And one day I got so angry and anoyed I screamed go away at them and burst out sobbing and the fact that I kind of howl when I cry does NOT help they started mimiking me so I when to look for my sub teacher (who is realy kind) but I couldnt find her I was out of sight of the others so I sat down and had a good cry. I ended up telling the teacher with no reaction(I dont tell usualy because they attack me about that even more) and doing "special" buddy time on my own.
Now I have developed a habit of releasing my anger at home
I get unusualy violent
But now these girls have said that I make myself cry and that I pick fights
I skip school when ever I get the chance and have started swearing
what can I do?
Answers: Okay there is about five girls at school who pick (VERBAL) fights with me I ignore them and It is becoming a constant thing I tell them to get lost or go away all the time and now they are just teasing me more saying I dont have any come backs
and I usualy end up in tears
And one day I got so angry and anoyed I screamed go away at them and burst out sobbing and the fact that I kind of howl when I cry does NOT help they started mimiking me so I when to look for my sub teacher (who is realy kind) but I couldnt find her I was out of sight of the others so I sat down and had a good cry. I ended up telling the teacher with no reaction(I dont tell usualy because they attack me about that even more) and doing "special" buddy time on my own.
Now I have developed a habit of releasing my anger at home
I get unusualy violent
But now these girls have said that I make myself cry and that I pick fights
I skip school when ever I get the chance and have started swearing
what can I do?
Don't just ignore them. Stand up for yourself. Don't go and take it out on the people at home. talk to your school counselor. If you want to change for the better you can. We all have to choose how we react to certain situations. Look up Victor Frankel he teaches about how to react in bad situations. You can overcome this problem. Don't back down or give up. Some people can get through these situations and become stronger because of their trials you can do it. I am telling you don't let this thing beat you. Go to school, and find ways to overcome this problem. Rely on your friends to help you get over this. Don't let this one problem defeat you.
Wow im super sry this happened to me b4 rude huh?
well talk to ur principal or maybe with ur school consouler
hang in there i kno its hard hun..
=]] hope this helped
I used to get the same thing. Seriously, the best thing you can do is ignore them. I they arent getting any reaction out of you, teasing you will become boring for them and they'll pick on someone else. Kids like that are just horrible! Good luck :)
EDIT: I really cant believe I got thumbs down for trying to help someone! Im not saying back down and be a wimp, Im saying you're no better than them if you abuse them back...Whatever....
Talk to your parents and have a meeting with the principal of your school. Report any incidents that happen from here on out. And don't worry about being quick to cry. Whether I'm mad or sad tears come to my eyes quickly.
Try talking to your guidance counselor, the principal and your parents. If the principal and counselor refuse to help, I would hope your mom would. She can take the issue to your school principal's bosses, and the school board for you.
Make sure that they realize HOW badly this is effecting you and even your life outside of school. Also, start trying to document when they are mean to you. Write what they said, and who said it at what time.
I hope this helps!
If it is getting to the point where it is effecting you on such a level that it is altering your behavior like this at home, it is time to talk to someone about your reaction to it. And yes, you do have to try to just ignore it, (much easier said than done), and they will move on, but talk to either your school counselor or doctor to get a hold of someone with some stress/social coping mechanisms. If you are becoming violent, it is time to find another way of releasing your anger. Best of luck!
well this is serious i woudl tell the the teacher again and tell your parents and if that dont stop them and if they put their hands on you them tell your parents to talk to all of their parents and its that still dont help (police) i hope everything works out for you
1. Ignore them. (I know, this is tough).
2. Say absolutely filthy, offensive things to them. (if you need help, just e-mail me).
3. Pick a fight with one, and not in the verbal sense of the word.
I know, some of these aren't 'healthy' alternatives. However, you are getting to the point that if you don't learn how to stand up for yourself, it will affect your courage for the rest of your life. Get a little crazy, and show these girls that you can give as good as you get.
What can you do? Get a life! No wonder they make fun of you and hate you. Read what you're asking us.
Everyone gets made fun of. Get over it, and get over your stuck up self!