Why does every one have to change in high school?!
Question: Almost all my old budies are changing and become more self absorbed and petty, and i feel like i havent changed a bit. is there something wrong with me?
Answers: Almost all my old budies are changing and become more self absorbed and petty, and i feel like i havent changed a bit. is there something wrong with me?
I found this when I started High School, I found that my old buddies from Primary School (or Elementary School if you're an American) who I'd been close friends with for years begin to drift away from me.
My guess is it is when you go to High School you're friends meet a whole load of new people who they'd rather hang out with but don't worry this isn't your fault. Try and find some people you'd like to hang out with. Join clubs.
People do change at your age because of puberty, they start to become sexually active that's why they become more self absorbed.
no but most people change in college
embrace it. change is a good thing and even though you dont notice it you're changing as well or you will change. its a part of growing up.
but it seems they are changing for the worst. so why dont you change friends? but definitely dont change to be like them!
be yourself, you'll make friends quickly and dont feel bad about leaving those absorbed, petty old friends behind.
No, that is just who you are. Just be yourself.