How can I cope with two deaths before a vacation?!


Question: They don't affect be huge, but I am really sad.
One, my neighbor died from cancer. It is only the second time a neighbor has dies in my life and I was really young with the other.

Two, this may seem weird, but I saw a dead rabbit. I love animals a lot and we like to put food out for them so they can come. I am suspecting a beagle killed it. But I am sad because that bunny will never live on earth again. It's covered in blood. They always came out at night to eat and when I could see, I used to sit and watch them eat because it was fun. And just realizing that I saw him eating, will now never see him in life before. And I feel guilty that we cannot bury him. He had to go through suffering before dying and that hurts me. I actually cried last night, and I usually don't cry, and I couldn't get to bed.

But I'm leaving for Cleveland tomorrow and I've been so excited, but I don't want to go anymore now b/c of the death. I'm seeing the White Sox and I might be sad while there.


Answers: They don't affect be huge, but I am really sad.
One, my neighbor died from cancer. It is only the second time a neighbor has dies in my life and I was really young with the other.

Two, this may seem weird, but I saw a dead rabbit. I love animals a lot and we like to put food out for them so they can come. I am suspecting a beagle killed it. But I am sad because that bunny will never live on earth again. It's covered in blood. They always came out at night to eat and when I could see, I used to sit and watch them eat because it was fun. And just realizing that I saw him eating, will now never see him in life before. And I feel guilty that we cannot bury him. He had to go through suffering before dying and that hurts me. I actually cried last night, and I usually don't cry, and I couldn't get to bed.

But I'm leaving for Cleveland tomorrow and I've been so excited, but I don't want to go anymore now b/c of the death. I'm seeing the White Sox and I might be sad while there.

You cope by realizing that death is a part of life and though every death leaves a void it's natural and you were richer for having known the person (or animal). Always move forward; don't become stuck in the past.





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