When you are depressed where do you cry?!
Question: I cry in my bed (cause I sleep alone) or in the bathtub so my husband & kids won't bombard me w/ questions.
Answers: I cry in my bed (cause I sleep alone) or in the bathtub so my husband & kids won't bombard me w/ questions.
It is always better to be sad alone... I just came back from a local little bar that I walked to and there was only 5 people there and I played sad songs and drank a few beers alone. I feel so much better because I was by myself and did not talk to anybody it was like a private place. (she hates any music I play so it was fun to play what I wanted).
wherever i am at the time
anywhere in my home. however, i make sure no one is around.
the bathroom or my huge closet
In bed or bathroom but I've also cried at work when I was younger a few times alone when I was really going through it.
When I'm truly depressed, I can't cry. I'm too outside myself and apathetic to cry.
When I really feel the need to cry, I just do where ever I am. Of course your kids and hubby are always going to want to know whats wrong, but its important to let them know that you just need a little time to yourself and that you're okay. Perhaps you should ask your husband to take the kids out the house for an hour or two, just so that you can have time to clear your thoughts.
Its not good to make the bed or bathtub designated "crying spots." They should be places of comfort, sweet dreams and respite. Do not condition yourself to cry every time you take a bath or lie down to rest.
If you cry so much that it interferes with your life, health and well being, PLEASE seek professional help. God Bless.
In my bed, sometimes in front of others if I feel safe to do so. Sometimes when I pray I also cry.
i like to drive my tears away.....
Your problem, YES MASTER!. Instead of spending life crying in a bathtub and sleeping alone, I would take charge of my life for the sake of my kids. Kids will at one time resent you, for being a doormat, and walk all over you themselves, if you don't show some backbone and self respect.
He is only a man, kick his butt and tell him in hard terms, either get involved if you care for your family, or get lost and just take care of your own self, I am not your nanny, I am your other half, 50 - 50 remember. You have made adjustments, and now its his turn to repay the dedication you show him.
If he can't, I am sorry (I would never let anyone shred my self respect for no amount of security, I would try to get independent, ask good lawyer, for my rights, and kick the MAN, out of my house, so that at least my kids don't have to suffer a live in, no father, they would be better of not having one around at all, and see your smiling face. Talk to your kids, and let them bombard you w/ questions, you solve their questions, let them know it's their turn now. Self sacrifice is a noble virtue, but virtually, no one appreciates it in today's or even yesterday's time.
I cry when I am angry, I scream and scared the living daylights out of anyone who knows me. They know not to get in my way, when I am depressed, and try to humor me or coax me out softly and carefuly. I cry when I have been hurt by a comment, by someone I trusted, and then I cry alone and feel sorry for myself for about 2 min.
i cry where ever i am ,, tears fall when they fall,,
I don't but I would probably go to the bathroom.