Has anyone been through the same as me?!
Question: hey, uuhm. 2 days ago, my stepfather broke into my room and tried to touch my breasts. i was asleep, and when he was about to do it, i woke up. he was schocked, and just said " uhm, you we're having a nightmare, so i had to wake you up " .. and then he left as quikly out. i got afraid, cause i know what he tried to do...
i told my mom, but she kept saying " nono, he probably didnt try to, he just tried to wake you up" ..
i got frustrated, and i HATE HIM SOOO MUCH. the same with my mom. what if anything else happens!? she's a sick woman, she loves her second husband more than her kids.
i havent eaten the whole 2 days, cause i dont want to go out of the room. i went to the doctor today, and they said that im not healthy because of stress and no eating... im so frustrated cause not even my mom listens, and the doctor said i may have diabetes .. just maybe..
i just want to escape, i hope someone has gone through this too. i dont know what too do?
Answers: hey, uuhm. 2 days ago, my stepfather broke into my room and tried to touch my breasts. i was asleep, and when he was about to do it, i woke up. he was schocked, and just said " uhm, you we're having a nightmare, so i had to wake you up " .. and then he left as quikly out. i got afraid, cause i know what he tried to do...
i told my mom, but she kept saying " nono, he probably didnt try to, he just tried to wake you up" ..
i got frustrated, and i HATE HIM SOOO MUCH. the same with my mom. what if anything else happens!? she's a sick woman, she loves her second husband more than her kids.
i havent eaten the whole 2 days, cause i dont want to go out of the room. i went to the doctor today, and they said that im not healthy because of stress and no eating... im so frustrated cause not even my mom listens, and the doctor said i may have diabetes .. just maybe..
i just want to escape, i hope someone has gone through this too. i dont know what too do?
Yeah, you are not alone...
Is your biological Dad still in your life? Would he be an ok person to move in with? Or maybe a grandmother?
You need to lock your bedroom door at night and place something in front of it so you will know if he tries to get in. This is JUST a temporary method to help protect you until you can get a workable situation.
Since you have already talked with your Mom, I'd say the next step is the school counselor or principal. They will HAVE to escalate it so child protective services will step in.
I really hope this works out for you.
When my Dad made a move on me, I started locking my door. Not being in the same room as him. And spending ALOT of time a friends house until my stepMom got home from work. Finally ended up moving in with my Aunt.
I know with MY daughter that I would err on the side of caution and kick the lousy SOB out of the house. If there was proof I'd most likely save the tax payers alot of money and take care of the problem myself. I'm sorry your Mom isn't standing up for you the way she should. She sounds like a very insecure woman.
I know it rocked my world when my Dad acted similarily. I've never reconciled with him. He destroyed a very special trust that he was given. A child should not have to deal with the predators being under their own roof...
Sigh. You are having to grow up way too quickly having to deal with junk like this. Be strong. Reach out for help. You don't have to live in fear.
If your mom doesn't listen to you find someone else to tell. An adult at school maybe.
If you are old enough to move out, then do so. Or find a friend or family member that can help you out. You can also call police because that is sexual harassment.
okay
start eating again its not worth starving yourself over this
call childline or th epolice and they should talk to your parents
if htis still doesnt work, ask if one of your friends is willing to let you stay for a few nights just so you can escape from the ordeal
hope thiss helped
good luck :) x
talk to your mum again and if you have to then set up some sort of recording device in your room, weather it be a mobile phone camera or just a voice recorder, don,t just leave it, he,ll walk away and your pay the price
talk to a trusted adult like a counselor at school. or child protective services. get something to eat get help before he goes too far. good luck!
You need to put a video camera on your night stand but try to hide it. Next time he tries (and he probably will try again) scream as loud as you can! Then you have evidence on your camera and your mom has to believe that. Honey, you should go stay at your friends for a week or so, that way you have nothing to worry about. And this is a little message for your mother.
Listen! You don't believe your daughter for something like this? You need to get her story
straight because I don't think she'd post this for no reason. You better protect her daughter
or she'll probably have no one else to turn to. So you talk to your potbelly husband and
tell him the consequences.
you need to tell an adult who will listen. Talk to your school councillor or something. You say kids. Watch out for your brother/s and/or sister/s. If you notice anything weird about their reactions to him, or things seeming suspicious then confront them or once again tell an adult who will listen. Councillors have to take any accusations like those seriously. So do teachers.
You need to stop this before anything else happens. Trust me, having things done against your will isnt something you want tainting you emotionally, or ur siblings
tell your teacher, professor,your friends,cousin. Do something about it...don't just stay in your room and starve yourself. Eat and get healthy so that you would have the energy to fight back your problems. Get a small voice recorder leave it somewhere in your room before you go to bed. This is serious. Get help immediately.
It is very important for you to keep eating because you might be diabetic. Please keep eating.
Your mom does not want to know what is going on.
Is there an aunt, teacher, neighbor, family friend that you feel safe talking to about this? If not, talk to your school guidance counselor about what happened. Please talk to someone right away. You need to be protected against him.
Please stay safe.
I'm so sorry that you can't go to your mother with this problem. Most woman in this position would deny it because it's just to horrible to think possible. I believed my daughter when she told me her uncle touched her. She was young, but I never questioned her word. This man ended up spending time in jail because she wasn't his last. I'm sure if he tried to touch you then you ain't his first, nor will you be the last. What you need to do is tell your councilor at school. It's not an easy thing to do, but it must be done in order to make sure you're safe. Even if he didn't touch you, you don't feel safe around this man and someone should do something about that. You said he "broke into" your room. Was your door locked? You do need to eat something. When your mother is home go down and eat. It's going to do you no good to make yourself sick. Best of luck ot you my friend.
You need to contact this support group ASAP
http://www.childhelp.org/get_help
Talk to a trusted relative or a school counselor or teacher
Call family welfare...
you are right about your mother.it is a very serious thing and she can,t ignore it.First concentrate on your health,if you don't ,you will suffer not he and it would be easy for him cause he will make
excuse of being taking your care because you are not well and you will be his victim.Try talking to your mom.Be alert and show him that you are unaware of his intensions and catch him red handed.Dont be alone with him.Do things that you like-reading music etc and try to spend time out but not too much and speak to him in stern voice.Dont let him know much about yourself he may even try to lure you.
Hi, firstly id like to say i think you'll be ok.
Try to talk to your mum again.
Try to talk to him in private to put some strong words in place.
Its never happend to me because im a guy. Just be stong and stand up for yourself.
I know others have answered but I think it's important you get as much support as possible. The advice to tell a trusted adult, especially since your mom's not seeming to listen, is the best advice. I was a teacher, and I know they are required to report this to Child Protective Services. Then, your mom will have to take this seriously. Most times, CPS believes the child over the parents, even when the parents deny it. They may even remove you from the home, which may be best since you're afraid to come out of your room even to eat. Make sure you tell the teacher, and CPS worker all of these details that you've listed here. Also, the advice about trying to get proof via a recording device is also very good. I don't want to scare you but are you sure he hasn't done this type of stuff when you were sleeping, also, since you woke up while he was doing it? If you could set something up on the door that would make noise when he tries to come in might be good too, especially with a recording device. Then, your mom could see he tried to come in, and you weren't having a nightmare. Of course, that might only work once, since he'd know you have something there, but it might be enough to deter him.
Good luck!! Start eating. You should not have to deprive yourself of nutrition and make yourself sick because of him. There are other options. I hope all goes well!!
Be alert. Eat, keep your strength up. Scream long hard and loud the next time he approaches you for a touch. Scare the crap out of him and he will give you a wide berth. If you have siblings keep an eye for him to mess with them. Warn them and tell them to scream and tell if he acts too friendly.
chill. you have to eat hun, you have to let this slide because its your home, just stay out of his way