Is there something wrong?!
Question: im in highschool.gr12. im a quiet guy and i enjoy being alone and i dont mind not having alot of friends. and also sometimes it seems as if ppl are talking about me. i dont know if its just me but there are these ppl(this cocky chinese group) that i feel do not like me although they nvr say it nor have i ever heard anything from them but ive gotten in a fight a few yeaers earlier with one of them. im chinese. they're chinese. ive always gotten along very well with everybody else inmy previous highschool years but these two years ive seem to adapt an i dont give a crap about anybody any more attitude, most likely becuz ve found out that some ppl i use to hang out with dont consider me as their friend anymore,so anyway i was wondering if theres something wrong with my antisocial attitude. and also how come i keep thinking that these ppl are talking about me sometimes even as they sit across the classroom i feel they may b looking at me?
Answers: im in highschool.gr12. im a quiet guy and i enjoy being alone and i dont mind not having alot of friends. and also sometimes it seems as if ppl are talking about me. i dont know if its just me but there are these ppl(this cocky chinese group) that i feel do not like me although they nvr say it nor have i ever heard anything from them but ive gotten in a fight a few yeaers earlier with one of them. im chinese. they're chinese. ive always gotten along very well with everybody else inmy previous highschool years but these two years ive seem to adapt an i dont give a crap about anybody any more attitude, most likely becuz ve found out that some ppl i use to hang out with dont consider me as their friend anymore,so anyway i was wondering if theres something wrong with my antisocial attitude. and also how come i keep thinking that these ppl are talking about me sometimes even as they sit across the classroom i feel they may b looking at me?
pls dont worry about them...high school only lasts for a short time..doesnt matter where you come from...you will leave school one day and as you grow up so will these other ppl
really dont worry concentrate on your studies and dont worry if they are talking about you or looking at you....they will grow up and so will you its not worth worring about i promise i ahve seen some of the ppl that have been mean to me at primary school and they are all cool now..time some times it just takes time..and you have the maturity not to worry dont let them get to you as you will be ok they are just inmature they will grow out of it and by then you wont care good luck!!
if you isolate yourself from people, people wont approach you and talk to you..regardless if your friends or not with this chinese group of people...try hanging out with a non-chinese group of people..its not a bad thing and maybe pepole wouldnt see you as anitsocial
You may have some kind of paranoia, but not real serious. High school friends usually suck.... lol, but I would still look into seeing someone (therapist, etc.) so you have somewhere to talk about these things. They will be able to give you good insight and understand as to why your mind thinks this way.