My friend abandoned me?!
Question: I feel so abandoned right now, but it doesn't even make sense why. My friend came to sleep over at my house and ussualy I am so frantic over trying to find something to do. But this time, I just focused on enjoying the time I spent with her. And it worked, it was so much fun. But now that she has left, I am angry and sad and depressed.
I mean she slept over at my other friends house for 2 days, why cant she sleep over at my house for 2 days? And she just left. I always feel so depressed after sleepovers, I am seriously feeling sucidal (sp?) over this. And I know that sounds stupid and selfish, and I guess I am stupid and selfish then. What can I do to feel better?
Answers: I feel so abandoned right now, but it doesn't even make sense why. My friend came to sleep over at my house and ussualy I am so frantic over trying to find something to do. But this time, I just focused on enjoying the time I spent with her. And it worked, it was so much fun. But now that she has left, I am angry and sad and depressed.
I mean she slept over at my other friends house for 2 days, why cant she sleep over at my house for 2 days? And she just left. I always feel so depressed after sleepovers, I am seriously feeling sucidal (sp?) over this. And I know that sounds stupid and selfish, and I guess I am stupid and selfish then. What can I do to feel better?
Remember the great time you had! She was probably just as sad to leave as you were to see her go. Maybe she had homework, or already had plans. There are many reasons as to why she couldn't stay =\
Have a different friend sleep over.
You dont say how old you are?? I am certainly not diagnosing but your symptoms sound very similar to a 'Borderline Personality Disorder' presentation.
Go and chat with your dr., or somebody else you can trust..
Good luck...................x...................