Heyy people i need tips on a few things fast.?!
Question: i need tips on:
Guys; seriously, idc about bf && gf stuff that much, mostly because hello im like 13. but guys usually ask me to dances, ask me on dates ect. :\ im not that great with the word "no."
Studying tips!
when i try reading my study notes;
they usually put me to sleep.
i need a more interesting way to study!
People;
people have different personalitys;
im really sensitive, and i know thats kinda bad,
but good. Sometimes people judge me on my sensitivity...
Nervousness;
i get really severially nervous in front of people;
which doesn't support the fact i have a presentation April 7th 2008.
school;
just the thought of my school makes me want to
puke. I get butterflies at least 45 minutes before i leave to school.
Seriously stressed.
Answers: i need tips on:
Guys; seriously, idc about bf && gf stuff that much, mostly because hello im like 13. but guys usually ask me to dances, ask me on dates ect. :\ im not that great with the word "no."
Studying tips!
when i try reading my study notes;
they usually put me to sleep.
i need a more interesting way to study!
People;
people have different personalitys;
im really sensitive, and i know thats kinda bad,
but good. Sometimes people judge me on my sensitivity...
Nervousness;
i get really severially nervous in front of people;
which doesn't support the fact i have a presentation April 7th 2008.
school;
just the thought of my school makes me want to
puke. I get butterflies at least 45 minutes before i leave to school.
Seriously stressed.
WOW... Your asking for a LOT!!
LOL
I'll see what I can do:
1.Guys: Guy's are retarded... Don't freak out about guy's until early-to-mid 20's... Before that they are only an unnecessarry distraction.
Treat them like toys... Fun to play with until you get tired of them or they break.
FOCUS ON STUDYING! FOCUS ON LEARNING! FOCUS ON PREPAIRING FOR THE FUTURE!!
2.Studying tips: Keep music on! Find some songs you REALLY like with a good, strong, FAST beat!
If you like electronica that would be perfect but anything with a strong fast beat that will keep your blood pumping! Slow music, warm rooms, dull subjects just combine to put you to sleep!
People/Nervousness: I live by the Mantra of "Fu*k it!"
Meaning, Don't like me? "Fu*k it! Why should I care what you think?"
Turn me down if I ask you out on a date? "Fu*k it! You were not worth my time to begin with!"
I know it is hard, but please remember... ANYONE that judges you without getting to know you IS NOT WORTH YOUR TIME! Anger is just energy that could be used to better advantage so don't fall for their bait! THEY ARE TRYING TO GET A RISE OUT OF YOU!
School: Remember, without school you won't succeed in life! Study, pay attention, try to ignore the retards that can't think more then 2 hours ahead, and JUST HAVE FUN!
EVERYONE is putting on a drama... No one in High School actually IS the person they pretend to be.
They PRETEND to be big and bad and tough... ALL AN ACT
They PRETEND to be sexually experienced... ALL AN ACT
They PRETEND to be grown up... ALL AN ACT
Just focus on your studies and go out for some extracaricular activities and do what you can to get as much out of it as you can!!
Studying Tips:
There was a study that if you study for 10 min. and rest for 10 min. then study 10 min...etc,. you will learn 90% of what you study if you actually are concentrating, not thinking of the next 10 min. break... =)
Wastes a lot of time, but better than wasting a little time while learning nothing.
okay 1. cant help ya 2. i just make it sound fun like 3. just say i am who i am and i cant change that 4.just take lots of deep breaths 5. just chill
Well its kindof up to you to say no.
try reading them aloud (to keep you more focused) or try singing them in a beat or something.
i dont really know how sensitive you are so i cant say,...
thats just a self confidence problem, dont worry about what other people think,
try looking forward for something (class/person/something after school) so you have a reason to get up. allso sometimes taking a shower before school helps you wake up.
for guys and saying no, just say no, not interested. it's to the point and guys may not like it at first but will appreciate you not leading them on. Tell them you don't want to lead them on.
Studying you need to get into it. You need to find the right parts that make it interesting to you. For me I ask myself questions and answer them in my head as I go along. I try to picture what i'm reading. It's better that way.
Who cares what people judge you for. they will always judge you just be aware and use it to your advantage. It's not bad to be sensitive at all.
Nervousness sometimes you gotta just suck it up and do it ya know? you'll do fine as long as you stick to what your doing and relax. Try breathing.
School lol your stressing yourself out too much. Your not really good with people and have social anxiety it's alright but you really shouldn't worry about what people think about you. Just be yourself and you'll be fine.