So you think YOUR life sucks!!?!


Question: Well. Today I just found out I failed a random drug test. Out off all the years I've been working, I have never had one. I started using cocaine about 6 months ago after I found out for the third time I was cheated on. I already have a depressive disorder as well. On top of that I also found out I am positive for HSV I and II. This is right after I meet the best guy in my life, the ******* one. To top that off, I have my tubes tied. "The One" wants kids. I'm thinking of just saying screw it and offing myself. Atleast you are not me.


Answers: Well. Today I just found out I failed a random drug test. Out off all the years I've been working, I have never had one. I started using cocaine about 6 months ago after I found out for the third time I was cheated on. I already have a depressive disorder as well. On top of that I also found out I am positive for HSV I and II. This is right after I meet the best guy in my life, the ******* one. To top that off, I have my tubes tied. "The One" wants kids. I'm thinking of just saying screw it and offing myself. Atleast you are not me.

I am going to try to respond to your post with the least amount of judgement i can possibly muster because your clearly someone who is hurting emotionaly but here's some tough love....GET GRATEFUL!!!
I have an 8 yr old son who has has his last rite's 2 times and fought for 2 years straight to JUST LIVE! Now he's physically healthy but at 4 yrs old was diagnoised with autism. He fights everyday to just look in my eyes or be able to feel love from his own mother. He fights SO HARD to just connect and stay in this world, without retreating to his "other world" of autsim.
I am a single mother of 2 boys, my son i already told you about and then another son. I am a recovering drug addict, my sons father is in intensive care right now because he shot one more blast of heroin and might die! I am also a full time college student, keeping a perfect GPA of 4.0 I was abandonded as a child and have been on my own since, and i am telling you this,why?? Because i want to compete with you about who's life is worse??? NO! I tell you this because facing all of this and overcoming all that i have, i AM STILL GRATEFUL!! Self pity will keep you in the drama and sickness your in, i know cause i did it too. Some people live their entire lives as VICTIMS and they never stop feeling sorry for themselves, it sounds like that is where you are.
Your life is the way it is, so what are you going to do about it?? Are you going to feel bad for yourself and whine, OR are you going to toughen up, realize YOUR responsible for what happens in YOUR life and start fixing things??!!
Good Luck

Maybe you shouldn't do drugs....well good luck with that.

Uhm..please don't commit suicide. Life is more precious than what you really think it is. Sure it sucks now, but you still have time to change it around. I mean it will take a lot of hard work and frustration, but at least you are attempting to try. First stop using drugs, it's really bad and not a good way to deal with depression. Get medical help now and you still have time. Think about those who does love you. I mean this is why life is called life. Sometimes it's really awesome and sometimes it sucks like hell.

Wow...thanks for making my day!! Your life really does suck! Possibly...just possibly...you are dealing with the consequences of poor decisions. Why not try dealing w/ your issues instead of killing yourself? Suicide is selfish and cowardly; the easy way out

well if you sober up thinks might get better and there is also a chance that you can reverseyour tubes so there is a chance and well cocane is a dagerous drug my friend got aids because of her addiction... Stop now before you get really hooked on it

First of all, failing the drug test was your fault. Drugs are bad and everyone knows that they can stay in your body for months. Sorry you were cheated on, that's happened to me too and i know it sucks horribly. I have no idea what HSV is but it cant be that bad, right? And ca'nt you and "the one" adopt? It's better to give a child already on this earth a loving family instead of bringing another into the world. "At least your not me?" I would probably kill to have your life. I have to move to not only a different state but a different continent to live with my aunt because my dad passed away. Like you, i have depression [zoloft works very well in case you're looking for something to help], i have OCD, turrets, relapsed with anoreixa, and anxiety. Just take a step back and relax. Your life isn't as bad as you think it is, I promise. You're obviously depressed so i would take time out to manage that for your own benefit. Sorry i sound like such a b****
And P.S. to the girl who said she's colorblind- Girls can not be color blind so you probably made everything else up as well. Stop lying on Yahoo Answers, it gets annoying.. i'm used to seeing little 13 year olds lying about crap on here.

Well, you're not in jail, you haven't been diagnosed with terminal cancer and there are probably lots of people worse off than you.

How would you feel about getting pregnant by implantation? You know, your eggs, his sperm, the fertilization happens in a test tube and the fertilized egg is implanted in you???

Boo hoo, let's give you a cookie for earning the most rights to feel sorry for yourself.

So you wouldn't have failed that drug test if you hadn't used, right? Oh wait, the guy who cheated on you "made" you do it. Mmkay.

Life isn't fair. The best you can do is say "Well, that sucks" and keep going one day at a time. What else can you do?

well you need to get help. for your emotional problems and your drug problems.. Suicide isn't the answer .. everyones life sucks that much at some point

im not sure if your bragging or just venting

but get help

i know its what everybody tells you but its the best and only way to make things better





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